As the saying goes, husband and wife are birds in the same forest. Once a disaster happens, they will fly separately. But now the situation is that there is no "disaster" dilemma, and the husband and wife have to "fly separately." When divorce becomes a trend, marriage becomes a child's play, and the seven-year itch is shortened to three years, we can't help but think, what is the significance of marriage?

In many divorce cases, there are not a few people who end their marriage because of extramarital affairs, but some people lose themselves because of excessive paranoia in marriage, but they are stubborn in a marriage without feelings. In order not to fulfill you, they neither love you nor let you go.

According to a friend, there is a couple in their community who have been arguing for a divorce for two years. Every time two people are torn apart and say nothing, there will always be a person who regrets it for various reasons when he walks to the door of the Civil Affairs Bureau.

So entangled for two years, during which I fought countless times, and the furniture at home was smashed to powder. A few times, my friend couldn't stand it anymore, so I had to call other neighbors. As a result, neither of them remembered eating or fighting. They quarreled for three days and five days, and gradually, the neighbors turned a blind eye.

Because a friend lives alone and often goes to the restaurant run by that woman for dinner, and we have known each other for a long time. That woman always tells her friend that when she gets married, she must not believe that man's words, and falling in love is the same, but after marriage, she is another one. A friend asked her. Why do you have such a big contradiction with this man that you haven't divorced? She lowered her head and said sternly, I can't swallow this tone, and I don't want a divorce, because I can't help Xiaosan.

02

Friends only know that they have been married for six years, the woman is 30 years old, and the man cheated two years ago. At that time, they were still doing business near the university town. Usually, in order to promote their work, they often recruit some college students to take part-time jobs. This is where it all started.

Two years ago, a man hooked up with a part-time female college student. After being known by the woman, the man asked her for a divorce without thinking.

According to a friend, a woman met a female college student. She looks pure, doesn't dress up very much, and has delicate facial features. When a woman found her and asked her why she was with a man with a family, she immediately showed her ugly face. She said that she has the right to pursue love, and she really loves men.

She also called the woman a yellow-faced woman, so angry that she wanted to tell her husband that the girl he secretly loved was just a pathetic "Bai Lianhua".

But men take the responsibility on themselves, saying that they have no determination and principles, so that women can scold him if they want, and don't disturb mistress. It's ridiculous to look at the man who once loved. Now, in order to protect other women, she would rather be humble.

It is wrong to say one more word to those who are leaving. A woman has been trying to maintain her marriage. When she moved out of her parents and family, everyone came to persuade the man, but it was useless. On the contrary, men's determination to divorce has become greater. Finally, the woman asked her 6-year-old son to talk to him, but in the end, he would rather abandon his child and go out to find a mistress to marry.

Women try to ask calmly, why are men so obsessed with the third wife, is it really so unbearable? Six years of love, say no, no.

03

The man's answer made her even angrier. He said that the woman was too nagging and thoughtless to have the same topic. She is nothing but a yellow-faced woman who washes and cooks. However, has it ever occurred to this man that his woman, when she first met six years ago, was not young and beautiful, gentle and lovely?

Women and friends are crying for this failed marriage, and they are unwilling to be sad. She doesn't want her family to be separated by others. She doesn't want to give up just to make others happy. She even thinks that two people are not as happy as three. But it never occurred to her. She let go. Maybe true happiness is not far away. If she doesn't let go, she will eventually get hurt.

If you can't let go of your obsession, you will never get rid of it. Later, I heard that the woman still didn't divorce the man, but they moved again. That man still loves his lover, and she still quarrels with him.

We have seen too many cheating people, both men and women, without exception. The sooner they get out of each other's shadows, the sooner they will be free.

Entanglement is not a good thing. On the other hand, cheating is a matter of course. Leaving such a man early is not only good for yourself, but also an opportunity for yourself. Since there is no love, why force it? There are tens of millions of men in the world, because his fault is not worth it.