Recently, Bian Xiao of China Certificate Talent Network saw such a topic on Zhihu, "What kind of experience is it to find a job?" I want to discuss this topic with you.

Let's talk about Bian Xiao's feelings first:

When Bian Xiao just graduated, he went through a job search period of about three weeks. In less than a month, Bian Xiao felt as if he had been abandoned by the whole world, afraid to go out and talk to people, all kinds of decadence and emptiness ... (Bian Xiao compared with blx)

It can be said that not being able to find a job all the time is a great torture to body and mind, not to mention self-torture, and many times no one can explain it.

Let's take a look at Zhihu netizens "Can't find a job all the time?" Answer:

Yang Huaibin:

First of all, the money is used less and less. Later, I gradually began to ask for money from home shamelessly. My family has transferred a little money in chatter, but I am more and more afraid to hear such chatter. At this time, I was relieved for the relief of the economic crisis. As soon as I turned around, I began to scrimp and save. I spent a few dollars today and a few dollars tomorrow. Can the rent be delayed for a few days? I can use this money for a few days ... and then I will start a hungry life.

Second, emptiness, doing nothing all day and not knowing what to do.

Third, I dare not go out and meet acquaintances, especially relatives, for fear of being asked about work, income and love, not to mention longer-term planning.

Fourth, decadent, even have no mind to manage their own image.

Fifth, I dare not fall in love, thinking that no one will like me in my present situation.

Sixth, taste will gradually decline. At first, I thought Rolls-Royce was good. Later, I gradually felt that it would be very good if I could buy a Chery QQ. At first, I thought Apple's mobile phone was very tall. Later, I bought a mobile phone for several years and repaired it. I thought that as long as I could use it, I would use it. At first, I felt that a big villa of several hundred square meters was good, but later I felt that renting a house was a luxury. If people don't work for a long time, even their fantasies will depreciate.

Seventh, I will frantically find a job through various channels, such as the talent market, online recruitment, and find someone to trust. As a result, I either don't want to do it or I can't. At the most embarrassing time, even the trick of recruiting part-time typists is worrying. I always fantasize about pie falling from the sky, but even if it falls from the sky, I will find that I can't get it, because there are more people thinking about pie falling from the sky than dust on the ground.