Some time ago, watching Lovers, three couples were invited to participate in the love pilgrimage in Sri Lanka. One of them is a sister-in-law relationship. The girl has gone to work, but the boy is still a student.
Because she is nine years old, girls always play a sister or mother to take care of and encourage boys. Perhaps because of this, boys always become weak in the face of challenges and dependent in front of girls.
They exchanged roles in life and admitted such embarrassment and unhappiness in a separate interview. In fact, boys are more willing to take some responsibilities and make their own decisions, but girls always make decisions for him, and he is used to this way of getting along. And girls want to be like other girls, they can put everything down and behave like an innocent girl in boys' arms. However, the gap of 9 years old always makes her feel insecure.
Later, when the program group learned about their situation, they would deliberately let the boys make decisions from some small things; When a girl is sick, she will let a boy accompany her all night. When the boy walked with medicine for a long time at night and appeared in the girl's dormitory, all the camouflage and strength in front of the girl were released at that moment, and she fell into the boy's arms and began to cry.
After the broadcast of this program, the program group interviewed many people and asked them what they thought of brother-sister love. Most of them can't accept it, and they can only accept the difference of 1-2 years old at most.
I met a close friend in high school when I came home for the New Year. I haven't seen her for a year. This meeting, that kind of self-confidence, talkativeness and happiness, made her completely different.
No matter what I say, she can turn back to her partner. It can be seen that she is not just showing happiness, she is really happy. She and her partner met in her company. Maybe it was a fate. That boy, who lives in Shanxi, studied in Canada and finally worked as an intern in Shanghai.
She is two years older than him. She said: "Although I am twice his age, his thoughts are much more mature than mine, and he can enlighten me in many places. Best of all, because he is younger than me and a big boy, he usually brings me a lot of romance and happiness. " Then she began to tell me how he was filial to her mother, how he saved money to buy her a diamond ring and gave her a surprise. There are facts, evidence, stories and heartfelt happiness.
The most important thing she said to me that day was: "Be sure to find someone who makes you happy, happy and loves you, preferably younger than you, so that your happiness will increase many times." Yes, girl, after all, you are a girl. Let go of all pretense and troubles, and you can have a relaxed love.