Unmarried cohabitation is a sexual relationship in which men and women live together openly or secretly in the name of non-husband and wife. This relationship is not protected by law in our country. The current law does not interfere with the cohabitation of cohabiting couples without spouses, and it is illegal for one or both of them to have spouses. If the circumstances are serious, it will constitute bigamy and be punished by law.
Harm of unmarried cohabitation: the cost of cohabitation for women is higher than that for men.
Cost 1: social and cultural costs
At present, society may be tolerant of cohabitation, but tolerance does not mean affirmation. From ancient times to the present, if men fall in love, live together and break up again and again, they will be called "romantic talents" and "charming". This experience has also become a capital for men to show off. The same situation is disgraceful for women, who are often regarded as "easy virtue" and "flirtatious".
Many people think that as long as they don't feel cheated, the opinions of the outside world are not important. However, social culture is tolerant of men's love affairs, but demanding of women. When women fall in love again or enter marriage, they have to bear much more public opinion than men. This is unfair, but it is a reality, at least for now.
Cost 2: Health cost.
The physical characteristics of men and women determine that after cohabitation, women are prone to gynecological diseases. If you accidentally get pregnant, it is very harmful to women's health, and it is easy to leave sequelae if it is not handled properly. The risk of pregnancy is almost entirely borne by women.
Cost 3: Physiological cost
Women are older than men, and their physical function begins to decline at the age of 25. After living together for several years, the woman is old, the man is still young and his career is rising, but the two sides may not be able to get married.
Cost 4: Economic cost
When in love, most men will take the initiative to pay the bill. Of course, AA system is also a very reasonable and fashionable way. Once living together, the two sides will turn into an embarrassing relationship that is neither love nor marriage. There is less romance in love and more economic burden.
Cost 5: Psychological cost
After cohabitation, men's psychological self-confidence is bursting, because they know how to please and deal with women better and have more experience in getting along with women; However, when the relationship fails after cohabitation, women usually leave a psychological shadow, become less confident, and prefer to get married rather than enjoy love when dealing with the next relationship.