Everyone will meet different people in the university dormitory, deal with different relationships, and naturally learn a lot of different things. Here are some things I have learned. 1. University dormitory is like opening a blind box, you don't know what kind of people you will be with. This can be seen as a training camp before you officially go to society. You have to grow up with several people and learn how to get along quickly when they are immature. 2. Pay attention to the weakness of human nature. Human nature has many weaknesses, and everyone has some. It's not that someone is bad, but where is human nature. For example, most people are vain and jealous. You may have a good family, but if you spend money lavishly, others will think you are showing off, even though you used to live like this. What is normal for you may be different for others. There are similar grades and the like, all of which are the same. Actually, this is a normal phenomenon. You need to pay due attention to the feelings of people around you so that it won't be too painful. If you really have a difficult roommate, don't force yourself. To put it bluntly, everyone happens to live together. Being able to get along is fate. But after all, there are differences between people. If they don't deal with each other, that's it. If you push yourself too hard and think about it every day, then you will feel more and more uncomfortable if you are too sensitive. Just jump out and don't take it too seriously. 4. The human heart is a bottomless pit. Not only for roommates, but also for everyone. If you don't want to be nice to others, others will be nice to you. Don't try to be honest with everyone, but keep the bottom line. Only when you have the right expectations of people will you not be disappointed by your high expectations. Try not to get involved in other people's emotional problems For example, if your roommate complains about your emotional problems, you will be indignant and others will break up. As a result, the next day, people got back together, and you were embarrassed. Sometimes people just need emotional value when they get along with each other. 6. Do you know what you want to do in college? The most important thing is, of course, study. Learning includes not only the usual classroom study, but also various practices, your professional interests and so on. You should focus on how to improve your real ability. On this premise, other things are not too big. Tolerance is tolerance. Don't care too much. 7. Spend more time with students who study hard and study hard. Learning here also includes all kinds of learning outside the classroom and major. A classmate who usually actively participates in various practices is also studying hard. If you have such classmates in your dormitory, study together and influence each other. Avoid negative interaction with the dormitory, such as not studying. Otherwise, the truth of the world will be known only after entering the society, and it is difficult for people with poor learning ability to be competitive. From the relationship of university dormitory, I learned respect, understanding and tolerance and how important it is for others to help you. You need to communicate with each other and reduce misunderstandings. First, get along with roommates with a positive attitude. ? "roommates are enemies", "don't try to be friends with roommates" and "stay away from roommates to keep safe" … but I think meeting is fate, and I don't think it's good to stay away from roommates. If after a while, I feel that there is no common language, then it is not too late to talk again. I hope you don't just sentence your roommate when you enter school. What if your roommates are all coco lovers? If you don't get close to your roommate from the beginning, your college life will be much less happy. So, the most important thing is: be positive! ! Second, treat roommates as relatives. As the saying goes, "a distant relative is better than a close neighbor", so is a roommate. When I am far away, my family is not around. Who will cook for you if you are ill? Roommate. Your roommate will help you solve your urgent needs, but your parents sometimes can't, so cherish your roommate. In other words, the simplest truth between people is mutual benefit. If you lend a helping hand to others when they need help, they will certainly be grateful to you in their hearts. When you are in trouble, others will try their best to help you. Don't be stingy with your ability, and pay more attention to your roommate at ordinary times. As long as you don't meet that strange roommate with bad conduct, your life will be very happy. Third, go back to bed quietly and go out happily. ? What is the dormitory for? Rest. Especially six people, many people. Some people like to be quiet, while others are detached. There will naturally be contradictions between them. So I suggest you do your best in the dormitory. Quiet is always right. If everyone is talking about it, you can get high without fear. Please wear headphones if you want to play games; If you want to follow the drama and listen to music, please put on headphones. Especially in the dead of night, everyone is asleep, and you are still playing outside, which really has a bad influence. Fourth, the dormitory depends on everyone, happy you, me and him. ? Dormitories are public areas, and cleanliness should be maintained together. If you are tired of playing in the dormitory, you can sweep the floor, mop the floor and take out the garbage. Don't worry too much about who takes out the garbage and who doesn't. Unity is the most important thing! 5. If you don't love, please let go. ? Although Mr. Daxianer always thinks that the most important thing in interpersonal communication is harmony, what if he doesn't like cleanliness, noisy and not being with his roommates ...?