Cognition, interpersonal relationship and communication

Interesting cartoons, concise and vivid language and friendly communication stories help children understand communication, learn to communicate effectively and establish good interpersonal relationships.

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? What is communication?

? Telling and listening, writing and reading, crying of babies, hugs of friends-communication is the process of sharing our emotions and knowledge. So, why communicate? What are the benefits of communication? What are the tricks? Is quarreling communication? ……

? Telling and listening, writing and reading, babies crying, friends hugging … communication is the process of people sharing emotional knowledge.

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? I can communicate is a psychological education book for children's daily communication. Aliqi, a famous picture book writer, guides children to understand the importance of communication, learn effective communication methods, help children solve problems through active communication, learn to communicate with others and establish good interpersonal relationships through vivid and interesting cartoons, concise and vivid language and friendly communication stories.

? 1, the story situation is life-oriented, relaxed without preaching, well versed in children's psychology, and can cause children to sing.

? 2. Put forward solutions to the practical problems encountered in children's interpersonal communication during their growth.

? 3. It is convenient for children to compare the situation in the book with real life experience and learn good interpersonal methods.

? 4. Help children develop empathy, guide children to understand the importance of interpersonal communication, actively think about ways to solve communication obstacles, and live in harmony with relatives and friends.

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First-class emotional education picture books are very suitable for "communication" between teachers and students and between parents and children. -"Book List"

Aliqi perfectly combines the connotation, method, significance and practical guidance of communication, so that children can be happy in these complicated truths. This book itself is a model of how to communicate with children. —— Lin Jing, Aesthetic Education Researcher and Reading Promoter of Shandong Normal University.

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? Special thanks to Judith Finn Si Tong.

? To all the speakers and listeners in the world.

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? The word communication has many meanings.

? Communication means sharing knowledge. Communication is to convey information. Communication is expressing feelings ... and listening.

Communication needs two people: one person says. A person listens … and responds to him.

? ("There's something I want to tell you. Do you remember that you took the pencil from me yesterday? "

? "I don't remember."

? "Well, I want to say that I don't like you taking my pencil. I hope you can tell me first. "

? "Oh, I didn't know you would mind."

? "Actually, I mind very much."

? "I'm glad you told me. I'll pay attention next time. " )

We communicate through language.

? Let's talk. We listen. We write. We read.

? "Everyone needs to express their thoughts and feelings." "yes."

but ...

? Babies can only express their ideas in other ways before they learn to speak.

? As long as you pay attention to watching and listening, you can understand the baby's meaning.

There are other ways to communicate.

? Before the ancients learned to write, they communicated through pictures.

? Even now, our web pages use symbols and images to convey information.

? We can communicate without words, such as touching, hugging, kissing, clapping, stamping, pushing, pulling, hitting and kicking. If we don't know many other languages, we will communicate with body language.

? Painters communicate with people through pictures, dancers communicate through dances, music festivals communicate through music, and writers and poets communicate through words.

? There are more ways of communication: letters, newspapers, books, magazines, telephone, passwords, radio and television.

? Crying and laughing are also ways of communication.

? No matter what the reason, we can always understand the meaning of crying and laughing.

? Deaf people who can't hear communicate through sign language and lip reading.

? Blind people who cannot see with their eyes read Braille with their fingers.

Animals can also communicate.

? I am hungry; Welcome home and stay away from my nest; that's interesting

Man is the best communicator.

? We always have something to say to others.

Tell me what's wrong: say it, Jimmy, and don't refuse to communicate.

? On Monday, Jimmy looked unhappy for days on end.

? On Tuesday, things didn't seem to get better.

? I will ask him on Wednesday and tomorrow.

? Thursday, "Jimmy, what's bothering you?" "Nothing."

? "There must be, I can see that." "I don't want to talk about it."

? "But ..." "I said I don't want to talk about it!"

? "But, Jimmy, you have to say it. Do you know what will happen if you don't say it? You will have a headache and stomachache, and you can't do anything well! The trouble will get bigger and bigger, bigger and bigger than the original situation! If you don't talk and communicate, it will only be more painful and sad! It will also cause misunderstanding and anger! Failure to communicate will make the mood worse and worse. The war broke out like this! "

You asked me to say it.

? "Jimmy, tell me, we don't want to start a war."

? "Well ... do you remember last week, the teacher asked us who was the first president of the United States? I know the answer, so I raised my hand to answer. But you said it out loud, George Washington. The teacher said,' Billy, you answered very well', but you didn't raise your hand. This is why I am angry. "

? "Oh, Jimmy, I'm really sorry. I don't know if it makes you unhappy. "

? "Well, then, now you know. After saying it, I feel much more comfortable. "

? "Can we continue to be friends?"

? "As long as you remember to raise your hand when you answer the question."

? "Sure!"

? "I bet you don't know who is the first 16 president of the United States? Now, raise your hand and answer! "

? Bird: It's abraham lincoln.

Some things are easy to communicate.

? "Hi, grandma, do you know what happened at school today? Our little rabbit doesn't know where it has gone, and everyone can't find it ... "

? Grandma must love getting a call from Kiki.

Some things are hard to say.

? Okay, I'm embarrassed to ask. I don't want to make others feel uncomfortable.

? I don't know what to say. /? I'm afraid of being scolded and dare not say it.

? No one will understand. /? I feel embarrassed.

? Maybe things will pass soon. /He won't listen to me.

But as long as you say it, you will feel much more comfortable.

? I'm glad to talk to you. I'm glad you understand.

? I have to say. ? I thought you'd be angry.

? Thanks for listening to me. I feel much better.

? Say it, and things will pass. I didn't expect you to listen to me.

? Bird: It's really hard to express.

My diary

? Sometimes, I have some feelings in my heart, but it is difficult to tell others clearly, just tell myself. I write those feelings in my diary to find out what bothers me.

? I feel much better after writing it. When I write down my feelings and feelings, I will see things more clearly and explain them to others more easily. Sometimes, just writing it down will make my heart less sad.

? Moreover, in my diary, I also recorded many happy things, new things I heard, and many, many memories.

? Bird: Keeping a diary can also help us practice writing articles.

Are you listening to me?

? "Let's meet at the gate of Marty's stationery store at three o'clock."

? "You finally came."

? "Hi, Lolita."

? "Where have you been? I have been waiting since three o'clock. "

? "I'm sorry, I thought you said to meet at 3: 45."

? "Well, people always make mistakes."

? "Yes, I'd better buy an eraser."

? Tortoise: This communication is not smooth.

Response: Please reply!

? "I need to respond. When I tell someone something, I always want a response. "

? "Yes, the worst thing is talking to a wall. Some people are like a wall, you don't tell them anything. "

? "If no one else responds, the speaker will feel lonely and feel as if the other person doesn't care."

? "Jack is like this. Every time I say hello to him, I will say, hi, Jack, it's a beautiful day. He always looks like he didn't hear. "

? "Sometimes my father is like this. I tried to tell him about the swimming class yesterday, but he just stared at the newspaper and ignored me at all. "

? "Yes, it's good to share with others. Everyone knows what it feels like when they speak. "

? "Have you ever seen Treasure Island? What a great book! But it's horrible! Fifteen people competed for the dead man's box. Yo, Hoho, come and taste a bottle of rum! "

? "Do you remember the part where Jim Hawkins hid in an apple bucket and eavesdropped on the pirate Silver's plot? I was scared to hide in the quilt, it was terrible! "

? "Then let's say something fun. Do you remember the elf mouse? He wanted to show off how capable he was, but he was caught in the curtain. "

? "And his adventure in the country driving a car, hahaha!"

? "Reading is a great thing, and it is also great to share the happiness of reading with friends."

? "Oh, yes, we'll drive to Gao Qi Falls next week and tell you what's interesting when we get back."

? Bird: "Everyone needs others' response." "yes! "

Thank you for telling me

? I know how you feel.

? I didn't know you would mind.

? I'll remember that next time.

? I'm a little sad to hear the news. But I'm glad you told me.

? It's worse not to say it.

? We are still friends.

Pen pal: If you don't receive a reply, it's not communication.

? "I will miss you."

? "Don't forget to write to me."

? "I was lonely at first, but now I think camping is very interesting. I made a basket ... thanks again for the envelope and writing paper. Please write back to me. "

? "I have already sent the letter." "I have five letters!"

? You see, this is communication.

We can always find a way to communicate.

? "What's the matter?" "nothing"

? "Tell mom." "impossible."

? "Say it." "I don't know how to say it."

? "Then people started laughing at me." "Oh, you must feel very uncomfortable."

Communication is also about letting others speak their minds. ...

Sometimes, a book can tell you how you feel.

If you don't communicate, you may never know something.

? Wow, that's what I've always wanted. Should I ask him?

? Asked and asked.

? Now I'll never know.

? Wait a minute, excuse me, can you tell me where you bought the hat?

? At the children's theatre. They still have a lot.

? thank you

? Bird: Look! It's not that hard.

Be honest with friends: quarreling is communication.

? "Hello, Rachel." "It's you."

? "What's the matter?" "You know in your heart that you ate the last doughnut, and neither Allen nor Eileen ate it."

? "Yes, but I'm so hungry." "You always take the last one away."

? "I didn't." "You have! Last time at Jeff's party, so did you. "

? "I didn't go." "You went, you not only robbed things, but also did other bad things."

? "Well, Rachel! I don't want to say, but ... "

? "You spilled paint on Jason's shirt, and his mother couldn't wash it off!"

? "You copy my answers every time you do your homework. You cheated! "

? "Alexa, why are you always so clumsy? You are so stupid. "

? What are you two girls arguing about?

? "We are communicating, ha! Ha! "

Happy birthday: This kind of communication is really beautiful.

Have you heard? Don't talk nonsense, groundless things!

? "Catherine's sister Caroline fell off her bike and sprained her waist."

? "I heard that Catherine and Caroline rode too fast. Caroline fell off the bus and broke her arm."

? "Someone pushed Catherine off her bike and she broke her arm and leg."

? "Bob's sisters Catherine and Caroline had a serious car accident!"

? "Poor Bob and his brother Matthew went to the hospital to visit them ..."

? "A car came just now ..."

? "Do you know Matthew? His brother and two sisters have been admitted to the hospital ... "

? "Their four brothers and sisters lost control of their bicycles and flew into mid-air!"

? "That's not what I heard."

I want to sing a song for you. I want to tell you a story and recite a poem. I want to announce the latest news to you. I want to answer many questions ... so ... hey, where are you? Is anyone listening to me? I need an audience!

? Communication: means telling, listening and responding. You won't be lonely when you communicate.

Oh! So there you are! Please listen to me and tell me what you are thinking. Are you ready?

? I was ready for this.

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? Alik (1929) was born in Philadelphia, USA in September and graduated from Philadelphia Art Institute. She is especially good at capturing children's childish demeanor and depicting friendly life situations. Her paintings are fluent and vivid, and the characters are funny and vivid, which makes people fondle them.

? I can communicate is a picture book created by her in 1993, aiming to guide children to understand the importance of communication, learn effective communication methods and establish good interpersonal relationships. In addition, Aliqi's representative works include I know manners, I have feelings, How to make a book, and Digging dinosaurs.

Tu zi tu Yu

? Communication, simple and complicated, is very important to each of us. But as adults, we don't really know what communication is. Maybe we think talking to you is communication, I preach to you is communication, and we nag is communication. Actually, it is not. The book says that communication means that one person speaks, one person listens and one person responds. Yes, communication is a closed loop, not just talk.

? We don't really understand communication, and even if we do, we may not express it clearly. We hope that children can develop communication skills and have good interpersonal relationships. This book can help us well. As mentioned in the introduction, the picture book language is lively and interesting, the scene is vivid, and it is easy to pass on, which can let children know how to communicate in happy reading.