1, work and rest with roommates in a unified way
"Keeping quiet while others are sleeping is the most basic education", this sentence appears under the topic of girls' dormitory in Weibo. It seems that many people have experienced this kind of bad worry. Therefore, all members of the dormitory should try to unify their living time and reduce the gap between work and rest. If something really happens, members who get up early or go to bed late should also try to reduce the influence of sound and light on their roommates.
2. Don't engage in "small groups"
In the dormitory, we should treat everyone equally, don't favor one over the other, make friends with some people and alienate others. It's easy to make other members of the dormitory unhappy and think that you disdain to associate with them. Therefore, in the dormitory, we should try to keep a balance with everyone, try to be inseparable from our roommates, and don't engage in "small groups."
Don't invade your roommate's privacy.
Everyone has his own secrets and enough curiosity. We shouldn't try our best to explore the privacy of roommates. When the other party turns a field into privacy, it has a special sensitivity to this field, and any topic that tries to break into this field is not welcome. It is especially important to note that you must not rummage through your roommate's clothes without his consent.
4. Don't talk about others behind their backs
When others discuss a person with you, if you can't refuse directly, you can smile indifferently, but don't join the ranks. Sometimes there are several factions in the dormitory relationship, so you should try to remain neutral. Maybe many people will hate a person together, but this person really looks out of place with others. Many things will come to different conclusions from different angles, so look at a person with your heart, not go with the flow.
5. Speak your mind honestly.
If there is a contradiction between you, you should say what is in your heart, not hide it in your heart. If you feel uncomfortable, you will hurt your's relations because of this. On the one hand, being honest lets her see your sincerity, on the other hand, lets her know what you really think. No one is a worm in anyone's stomach, and there is no way to interpret what you really want to say.
6. Don't break other people's bottom line.
Know each other's preferences in advance, if there are any taboos. Be careful not to offend others casually and make jokes that touch the bottom line. For example, if the other person doesn't eat pork, you should be careful not to invite others to eat pork. For another example, if the roommate's mother has passed away, then try not to mention related topics in the future. Some people can be very sensitive.
7. Help each other and be lenient with others.
When we have something, should we ask our roommates for help? The answer is yes. Because sometimes asking for help can show trust in others, and you can get along well and deepen your feelings. For example, if you need help, and you leave your roommate to find someone else, your roommate will think that you don't trust him. If you don't want to ask others, how can others ask for help in the future?
8. Pay attention to your living habits.
Keep clean, travel light, and especially don't make any noise during rest. Don't sing and blow your hair when others are resting. This is often the main reason for intensifying contradictions. You must wear headphones when playing games at night. Don't shout.