Unfinished Life is a book I heard about a few years ago, and Yu Juan has seen the name more than once.
I know a thing or two about her: I know she is young, but she has a lot to do; Know that she is a doctor studying abroad and a talented young man; Know that she is a professor at Fudan University; I didn't know I had breast cancer until I was thirty-three. I know that she insisted on writing at the last moment of her life to warn future generations.
At that time, I also missed this book-I must read it.
Just, I don't know why, I don't know what I'm busy with, and this book that I've been thinking about for a long time, but I've never met, just ran aground.
Until, a few days ago, I walked with my friends and talked about this book (all my friends have this book at home), which immediately reminded me of my unfinished wish-I must finish reading this book.
Therefore, my friend found me two books: one is Psychological Nurturing by Professor Li Meijin; One is Yu Juan's unfinished life.
I am very happy to get these two books. Although I can't wait, I am still threatened by the "trapped god". So I stopped and stopped. Finally, I finished Psychological Support and began to pick up Unfinished Life.
Strangely, when I was reading "Unfinished Life", the "sleepy spirit" drifted away unconsciously, which improved my reading efficiency.
Many words in it intoxicated me: some made me understand how life should be lived, and some moved me to tears, especially the words written by my mother and grandmother.
In the days when grandparents died one after another, she felt the loneliness and sadness of her mother:
"Frankly speaking, elderly and sick parents are a burden to their children, but they are also a gentle burden and concern. When grandparents were alive, filial mother was busy all day, even staying up all night. Their bodies are exhausted, but their hearts are warm and full. The two old people are gone, and she seems to have solved the burden, but she is very lost and painful inside. "
I feel the same way. My aged parents are actually my gentle care and burden, and I am willing to have this care and burden forever.
May each of us learn to cherish, and don't wait until we lose it to regret it.