? Take myself as an example. The first time I left home to go to college outside the province, I wanted to start living independently.
Our home is in Guangxi. At that time, the college entrance examination was over, and my parents took me to Guilin, another urban area in the province. Naturally, this trip is usually accompanied by my parents, but the difference is that my parents gave me some money to plan how to go, where to go, how to play ... travel routes, hotel reservations, air tickets and so on. I did it all by myself, and my income and expenses were all with that money, so my travel strategy also needs to be budgeted. Of course, there were many mistakes in my plan during this trip, but my parents didn't complain, interfere or? Teaching? I, on the other hand, quietly wait for how I will correct and deal with this loophole and continue our journey.
? There is no doubt that I really learned a lot in this whole trip planned and paid for by myself, and I became calm when I met things that were not satisfactory. I won't watch my parents wait for them to solve me when I make a mistake, but I also have confidence? I can take care of myself and be independent.
? Later, my parents found me a job in a cake shop. The work was actually very hard, but because of my parents? Cruel? I had to do it for a whole month, and with my pride, I really persisted for a month. In this job, I have to deal with all kinds of people every day. I also need to wash dishes, mop the floor and get on well with my colleagues ... This process is really exercise.
After this job, my parents asked me and two or three friends to travel to Lijiang, Yunnan. In fact, this trip was also completed by several of our friends. What I want to learn most in this trip should be how to get along with people and how to cooperate to make things more efficient and interesting.
? In my opinion, the best way for parents to avoid excessive anxiety is to give their children enough exercise through enough trust, so that their children can truly have certain independence and the ability to get along and cooperate with others.