One hot summer day when I was a child, my grandmother looked up at the sun and touched her delicate skin, feeling very hateful: it was really useless for these two people to let their children work.
Look around, the big trees are at the head and tail of the ground, and there is no place to enjoy the cool. Reasoning, simply lying on the ground, although dirty, is better than sweating. At the same time, the little grandmother in the next village is also working hard.
Little grandma's house is falling down, and she finally has a piece of land, so she can't abandon it. Sowing, farming, digging ... all need elders to carry them. Although the village chief's old woman broke her mouth, what can she do? She can't be abandoned!
Grandma married, married a strong man, and suffered less; Grandma also married, married a sick seedling, and spent less money. A sturdy grandfather can earn two centimeters, and both old people have already left, so there is no burden. A strong grandmother can earn five centimeters of possessions, and her parents-in-law and sister-in-law are waiting for her. "I can earn a lot at that time!" Grandma is always very excited when it comes to this matter.
Soon, grandma gave birth to her father. In the same year, grandma gave birth to a mother. Later, I had an uncle.
Mom has been splashing since she was a child? After grandpa died, he was the pillar of the family. When the door rang, the whole village shook. Dad was a cross when he was a child, and he became addicted to cigarettes when he was a teenager, but he is a brave man and can be regarded as the king of children. Mother is a girl, so grandma naturally took money to send her uncle to school. Dad is a "bastard" and grandma can't afford it. So the two became most young people of that era.
Grandma knows the advantages of a strong man and took a fancy to a tall, strong and sophisticated father at first sight, but your family needs a yard. Originally, grandma was going to repair the dilapidated yard, but the materials were cheap and the money for tobacco, alcohol and tobacco was a problem. When she had saved enough, her daughter-in-law was gone!
In the next three months, before dawn, you can hear the voice of your granddaughter scratching the wall. When the fish's belly is white, you should cook and then go to the fields. My dad? Of course, I went to my mother-in-law's house. It is not easy to be a daughter-in-law.
The yard was built, mom came in, and dad found another job in the manor. Boss is in a hurry, something happened to the second child.
My uncle studied very well and was expected to be admitted to a good university, but he became the majority of young people in that era. Grandma knows that the sick old man has stopped talking, and there is no hope for his parents-in-law and sister-in-law who often bully others. Grandma, who usually scrimps and saves, took out most of her savings to buy cigarettes, wine and eggs, and begged all the teachers in the village (regardless of age). Those well-dressed teachers, who smoke and drink and take eggs, can't do it. The burden is getting more and more every year, who cares! Water under the bridge. Grandma knew that she couldn't go to school, so she simply saved some money, bought a van and went on a long trip with her brothers.
My uncle didn't study well, so he went to a junior college. Before going to school, he booked a family in the village and agreed to solve it when he returned to the village. Soon, my uncle came back with a little letter saying that he was in love in the city. Grandma had no idea, so she asked the old ladies in the village to discuss the solution. I listened politely to gloat all afternoon, but I couldn't find a way at night. The next morning, grandma opened the door and her relatives' in-laws stood in front of the door with sticks, shovels and hoes. As soon as grandma opened the door, she squeezed in without saying anything. Older people are responsible for watching the excitement, and young adults help them smash their homes and turn things over. Grandma leaned against the door frame and cried. At first I sobbed quietly, then I cried, and then I sobbed and wiped my nose. My uncle finally got his wish and married my aunt.
Later, my uncle bought a house in the city, became a family, and took grandma over. The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law always ends with grandma going back to her hometown and aunt taking it back from the village and starting over. This made my mother puzzled: "Isn't my hometown good?"
"Not as good as city people."
"How comfortable!"
"My legs and feet are not good, I can't do heavy work, and you can't come every day."
"Go to my place first and wait for Xiaoxue (my sister) to come back."
"I have to pick it up sooner or later."
This kind of dialogue happens once a year, but this year grandma has no confidence in "answering sooner or later". what can I do? I can't carry water, and I have no money and no job. How can I live without going back to the city?
When I saw my grandmother's legs and feet were inconvenient, I asked the uncle next door to carry water. I suddenly thought of grandma, who limped to fetch water when she broke her leg; Even if there is nothing, I must take a look; Cold steamed bread is pickles in the morning and served at dawn. ...
People are just different.