2. Insist on continuous input and output. The quickest way for a person to get rid of it is: let him be confined to his present job and be too busy to grow; Let him indulge in games, watch bubble dramas and other entertainment, and his cognitive ability has been standing still. Therefore, we must learn to grow up, don't stop thinking, give ourselves a fixed study time, and be proactive in high-quality input and output. This is the best shortcut to widen the gap with our peers! 3. Persisting in reading forever is the cheapest way to change yourself, which many people don't realize. Read for half an hour every day, and you will get many unexpected surprises: for example, the improvement of cognition; More calm and no longer impatient; Start thinking from multiple angles; Emotional stability; There are fewer and fewer confused moments, knowing what you need in the future, what direction to take, and so on.
4. Develop bonus skills. Having a skill can save you a lot of time in your study or work. You can learn some skills you like in your spare time, whether it's work or life, such as photography, PS, floral art, cooking and so on. It's really a waste of time to quit the tangled mentality. Sometimes I think for a long time, and there is no reason! When thinking about whether to do something, don't think about anything, just do it When considering whether to buy something, don't buy it decisively! When considering whether to say a word, shut up!
6. Leave 20% and 20% of your work to anyone, and you can surprise leaders and colleagues at any time; Keeping 20% mystery in getting along with others can keep feelings fresh forever! 7. Manage your wallet and develop a good habit of keeping accounts. It doesn't seem difficult to keep accounts. You can prepare a notebook, you don't have to remember everything, just record the approximate expenses of various expenses! The bill will help you understand where the spending problem is, thus helping you improve your consumption habits. 8. Learn to refuse. When you have free time, it is beneficial to help others. It is a negative point to sacrifice your personal time to cater to others. Don't be flattering, do things that make you uncomfortable.
9. Refuse what you don't want to do! What can't be done is not forced! Pretend not to hear if you don't like it! Your life is not to please others, but to be kind to yourself! 10. Make money and start managing money. Romain rolland once said: "People can't live only by feelings, but also by money." Money can get rid of 80% of your troubles in life! With money, you have the confidence to create the life you want, and you have more courage to face unexpected accidents. I hope these suggestions can be adopted, and I wish you a happy and colorful college time.