"Nanny-style" accompanying reading is the obsession of many parents, but it is really bad for children. Disadvantages: Accompanying the exam is actually a manifestation of tracking and serving culture and education. Perhaps because of the excessive care of parents, children will become good children in the mouths of other parents and become role models for other children. But the longer time goes by, the more serious the disadvantages of this kind of cultural education will be, which will easily lead to children's personality defects and weaken their ability to integrate into society and be independent. It is difficult to communicate with people after entering the society, and it is very easy to be rejected. Parents must make a good development plan for their children's life path, immediately solve the cognitive misunderstanding of family nanny culture and education, and prevent it from bringing more physical and psychological personality problems to children and endangering their lives.

Children's education begins at an early age. "It is better to teach people to fish than to teach people to fish." Encouraging children everywhere is not as satisfying as this. In the process of educating children, learning and training are carried out step by step from kindergarten, which is practical, purposeful and efficient. Let children form good habits as soon as possible, and parents will feel at ease in the later learning process. On the road of children's growth, parents don't have to do everything themselves, and they don't have to help their children. They should leave enough living environment for their children. You can help children buy clothes, but let them wash their own clothes; You can help your children cook, but you must wash the dishes yourself. What he can do must be done at home by himself. There is no need for him to learn better and have more time to study and train and do nothing. That will easily lead to selfish personality and weak self-control ability of children.

Children become more rebellious. Because children always see grumpy temper and harsh tone in their parents. Children will learn from their parents when they see their parents' more irritable and severe side, and then I will become irritable and the students' temper will become manic. Many parents are not aware of this. Sometimes, the good side of parents' behavior language will become a mirror in front of children, and children will become ugly and treat their parents in the same way. Therefore, in our real life, we will also see many cases in which children treat their parents by extreme means.

If parents are always strict with their children, it will affect the parent-child communication between parents and children, and there will be no such warm picture between parents and children, and what they see may be bitter and bitter. Therefore, parents are very strict with their children, often restricting their freedom and restraining them. As a parent, I will give them everything for you, give them love and warmth, and let the children feel the warmth and beauty from the family, so that your children's hearts will be full of sunshine.