College students are in their prime of life, full of longing for love, pursuing the beautiful moments of life, hoping to get to know the opposite sex and get the attention of the opposite sex. Love and study are two main problems that college students face during their school days. If the love relationship is handled properly and correctly, it can be a catalyst for study and career, which can make people study hard and improve their grades; Improper handling of love relationship may distract energy, waste time, mood swings and decrease grades. Therefore, we should correctly treat and guide college students' love view.

Characteristics of contemporary college students' love

1, the process of love is simplified. The love of contemporary college students is simple and fast. In the fast-paced life of society, college students' love has also begun to simplify, and the means of pursuit has changed from the previous "flying pigeon passing books" to the current telephone, text messages and internet. 2. One-sidedness in love. Contemporary college students often consider one-sided issues when they fall in love. They only consider what happens when two people are together and how to sublimate their feelings, without considering the influence of family, society and things around them. Often care about the process of love without considering the result, and separate love from marriage.

3. Romanization in love. Contemporary college students pay more attention to emotional pleasure and pursue realistic happiness in love. On campus, it is often seen that boys bow their heads in front of their girlfriends, the number of red flowers and the way of seeking love, but at the same time of romance, lovers do not value the success of love, and even think that love and marriage are two different things.

4. Idealization in love. Contemporary college students always have an ideal love mode psychologically, which is idealized ideologically. They look for objects according to their own ideal mode in love, and communicate according to their own ideal mode in the process of communication. If they don't want to conform to their own model, love will soon fail.

5. Physiological needs

College students are in adolescence and have physiological and psychological needs for the opposite sex. Sexual impulse is one of the inducements of college students' love behavior.

6. "Play" mentality

Some college students fall in love for fun or excitement. Treat love as a game, lack of sense of responsibility.

7. Psychological needs

The first is the need for love and belonging. College students are in the "psychological weaning period", hoping to establish close relationship with the opposite sex and eager to be recognized and accepted by the opposite sex. Second, we need "empathy".