Recently, the news that female students of Dalian University of Technology committed suicide in the laboratory attracted a hot discussion among netizens and topped the hot search list in Weibo. Before his death, he expressed all kinds of difficulties and pressures in his studies and job hunting.

The adult world is made up of all kinds of pressures. If you can overcome it, you are a successful person. If we can't overcome it, it's a cycle of despair. What became the last straw to crush her? We can't know. Just like an avalanche, no snowflake is innocent.

"Hello, everyone, I am a third-year student majoring in chemical engineering at Dalian University of Technology, and my tutor is Mr. Z. My research topic is ... Oh, don't go, I'm not here to defend ... I just want to say goodbye and be ready to solve my worries in the future."

You see, the first few sentences of the article are such a lively and clever little girl. Even the last sentence "I will be ready to solve my worries in the future" seems so casual, just like a casual joke.

The whole article written by female graduate students of Dalian University of Technology is not full of gray emotions, nor does it complain about social injustice. What she talks about most is self-blame and various pressures of life.

Now some college students take the postgraduate entrance examination, which is an evasive postgraduate entrance examination. In order not to face social pressure, occupational pressure and family pressure, they choose this way to postpone all these pressures. However, these pressures should be faced. When these pressures gather together and cannot escape, some people will lose control of themselves and do stupid things.

In fact, in the final analysis, it is not that these people are not responsible for themselves, but that they are too responsible for themselves. They don't want to live up to their efforts, but their efforts have been denied by others again and again; They want to create a bright future for themselves, but the hard ice of reality can't cover the heat; They want to embrace the world, but the feedback it gives them scares them. ......

"No, it must be your own problem!" "I ... what happened to me?" "Will it happen if you play less games and brush less videos?" "But ... but I did try my best." "That is you are stupid, lazy and useless. Your family gave you so much care for more than 20 years, and as a result, you raised a waste. " "So ... so what?" "If this continues, it will definitely be delayed. What a shame. Millions of graduate students don't lack this kind of waste. Go to hell. " "All right, then."