Of course, some people think that the post-90s job-hunting concept is too idealistic. In real life, if they have no money in their pockets and face the pressure of survival, how many people dare to leave their jobs and resign? Are young people who can say the above words already standing at a height where family conditions are superior to most people? It represents a group of people who don't have to work hard for their lives. It's easy to talk standing up.
Each of us wants to be happy and enjoy the sense of accomplishment brought by work, but the fact is that most people can't get a sense of accomplishment and happiness from work, let alone realize their own value. On the contrary, more and more young people's attitudes towards work are: they feel physically and mentally tortured, they want to work hard but have no motivation, and they want to escape but have no capital.
Why is this happening? Share some reasons with you.
First, commuting time becomes longer and happiness decreases.
I have seen such a sentence to describe the social phenomenon of today's office workers, that is, "since I entered the company, I dare not stop reading WeChat groups." The phenomenon behind this sentence reflects that with the development of information and communication tools, the dividing line between going to work and getting off work is not so obvious. After work, we have to always pay attention to whether there is news of the boss and leaders in the group. If there is, we should also put down what we are doing, even if we deal with it. I believe this is the normal operation of most people at work.
Many young people like to go to first-tier cities to work hard for development. Under the pressure of the cost of living, many people will have at least an hour or two to commute from the company. Originally, the company stipulated that they should go to work at 8 o'clock, but you may need to get up at 5 o'clock to start preparing.
On the one hand, I have a long commute and don't want to make sardines every day. On the other hand, if I am late, I will be scolded by my boss. Because of the long journey, my 8-hour working time has become more than ten hours. Therefore, for young people who work in some cities, there is a saying that can very well summarize their daily life, "either at work or on their way to work." The extension of commuting time has greatly reduced many people's expectations for work.
Second, the income level can't keep up with the consumption speed.
The phenomenon of "exquisite poverty" among young people, which caused a heated discussion some time ago, suddenly went on a hot search. At present, the real living conditions of most young people are overdraft consumption, even debt consumption, which is poisoned by some so-called "there is nothing wrong with being young, refined and poor" and "people live for happiness". If money can buy happiness, it doesn't matter how much they spend. " They haven't worked for a few years, and they are paid three or four thousand yuan a month.
My college classmate Wen Jia, who graduated from college and worked for half a year, found photos of punching cards in online celebrity attractions everywhere in the circle of friends. From time to time, he will take photos of Starbucks coffee and his desk, have a cup of Starbucks almost every day, and send some photos of where to play on his rest day. I didn't know he was developing very well, but in fact, everyone saw through it. His monthly salary is more than 3000 yuan, but he has to pay back many credit cards every month.
In fact, a good article is the shadow of many young people's real life. Their ability to make money is not very strong, but their ability to spend money is very strong. Their immediate wages can't meet their own needs, so they pay for their desires through various consumption in advance. Every time I pay my salary, I want to pay off all kinds of debts. Over time, bad consumption habits and living in debt all day long will not only lead to their lack of interest in work, but also make them realize that life is not easy.
Third, earn more money and have sex with people you don't like.
For young people, a big pain point is being under the same roof with people you don't like, but in reality it's not your choice. Many times you can't give up your job just because you work in a company with one or two people who don't have a good relationship. This is unrealistic.
But the boss's order is that you must finish the work with your colleagues, and you will feel very uncomfortable. Just like not all fish live in an ocean, people with different personalities will inevitably have friction when they get along.
However, we can't refuse this kind of friction at work. I can only spit with my good friends while enduring it, and I feel extremely tired.
Fourth, work is to make money and have no sense of accomplishment.
Life is realistic and cruel. For many people, even if they try their best, they just barely survive, and even the basic survival cannot be satisfied. As far as work content is concerned, many people's work is extremely boring. They repeat an action for 8 hours or more every day, which is completely within their ability. To put it bluntly, this kind of work is to make money.
Everyone works basically just to get an income, but few people think about why they are engaged in such work. Daily chores take up too much time for everyone, so that no one thinks about the valuable significance of work to themselves.
Social elites need extremely high IQ, and most of them are just ordinary people. So almost every industry has the largest number of people at the bottom, who are doing the most basic work and feel bored and tired.
Write at the end:
For most people, many times in life, we can't make money happily and do what we like at the same time. Only a few lucky people can enjoy work and life at the same time, but most people are doomed to be unlucky. In order to make a living, we need to do our best. Maybe this is the meaning of life. If the life we want is too easy to get, then the struggle will lose its meaning.
Most people just stay in the stage of confusion and complaint. Before they even started working hard, they went back to bed to play with their mobile phones. Such an ordinary person can only feel tired at work forever.
Come on, stranger, although there are many difficulties and unhappiness, life has to go on. As long as you can find something that makes you happy, even if you put it down for a second, you will feel that life is worthwhile. So come on, young man, work hard towards your goals, and believe that life will not live up to you, and it will always bring you surprises worth working hard for.