The matchmaker plays a role in communication, and some people attach great importance to the matchmaker. There is a saying that "you can't get married without a matchmaker". If you don't invite the matchmaker to go to the door to act as matchmaker, the other party won't agree to this marriage.
Although everyone advocates free love now, the fast-paced life makes many people have no time to fall in love, and some people are shy and don't know much about communicating with others.
So for many people, it is still a pleasure to have someone to match. Today, blind date is still a big way for many people to find someone.
However, we must be cautious about blind date, especially in some matchmaking agencies. What they do is disgusting, such as what happened to the girl below.
Although Xu Jing (a pseudonym) was born in an ordinary family, she was excellent since she was a child because she worked very hard. Later, she finished her doctorate by her own efforts.
After graduation, I worked in a good company. Because I like finance more, my income is considerable and my life is getting better and better.
Despite her successful career, Xu Jing's marriage has always been a heart disease in her family. Although there are many men pursuing Xu Jing, none of them are attractive to Xu Jing.
Xu Jing looks good, financial resources are good, and it is understandable that people with good strength are picky.
However, choosing Xu Jing left her. In fact, 34-year-old Xu Jing is still very popular, but she can't find a partner for a long time, which also makes Xu Jing very anxious.
In particular, I heard that some friends with good conditions met through matchmaking agencies, some married successful people, some married rich second generation, and their lives were relatively happy.
Originally, Xu Jing didn't believe this, but her parents' urging marriage and her own anxiety made Xu Jing lose her usual calm and decided to give it a try.
Xu Jing went to a matchmaking agency, and the evaluation was very good. The lowest package is one year 1288 yuan, and the highest one is one year 128880 yuan. The more money you give, the better men you introduce.
Of course, there are some special customization requirements and the price is higher. After much hesitation, Xu Jing decided to buy the most expensive one, 128880 yuan.
After all, this kind of thing should be better for yourself. Although 128880 yuan is too much for some people, Xu Jing is still acceptable.
After paying the money, the other party is even more powerful. I immediately introduced it to Xu Jing, and Xu Jing also secretly checked it. The information of that person is true, not that kind of packaging.
In a year's time, the other party introduced five high-quality men to Xu Jing, but everyone broke up after talking for a month or two.
Until the end of the one-year contract period, although I talked about several relationships, I failed. At first, Xu Jing thought she was not good enough.
But later, Xu Jing had several delusions that the other party just came to sleep with him, and then found a reason to break up, and didn't want to be with him for a long time.
Xu Jing confronted the matchmaking agency, but the other party said that he was only in charge of introduction, but did not say that he would succeed. In addition, according to the contract, he has been introducing people to Xu Jing all year round.
Moreover, the matchmaking agency also said that all the men they introduced were real and did not cheat on each other. This is Xu Jing's own problem.
Angry Xu Jing asked the matchmaking agency to give her a statement, otherwise she would make things worse and worse, and Xu Jing was gradually known to many people.
But strangely, many people know Xu Jing. Instead of sympathizing with Xu Jing being cheated, they looked disgusted, and some even gloated.
It turns out that people around you have long been used to this kind of thing. A woman like Xu Jing has a story once in a while.
However, in the end, I said nothing. After all, the matchmaking agency is also a normal introduction, and there is no economic exchange with those men.
So in the end, most of these girls can only eat coptis, and some of them are related, so that the matchmaking agency can pay some money, but can their lost feelings and youth be compensated with money?
Choosing a relationship must be based on love.
In fact, many people have been fooled by this blind date routine, but some people are constantly being fooled. This thing is just like people buying lottery tickets. Everyone thinks they can win the lottery.
Now many people want to find a rich man, but rich people are not so easy to find. You haven't cried with others, so why should you enjoy the fruits of others?
These matchmaking agencies are really serious introductions, as well as these so-called bosses, rich second generation, executives and so on. That's true, but that's not the point.
Matchmaking agencies receive various introductions. These men sleep with girls, and both sides get what they need and don't stab each other.
Some people show off privately. By this means, they slept with many girls for half a year. They thought they would marry them, but they definitely did.
Of course, not only women are cheated, but also many men are cheated. It's actually your greed. If people are not greedy, how can they be cheated?
There is a story about a crow drinking water. Crows fly to the river to drink water. There is a bottle with half a bottle of water by the river. Crows can't stick their heads in, so they want to fill the bottle with stones, and when the water overflows, they can drink.
But in the end, the crow's mouth broke and he still didn't drink water. Is it pathetic or worthy of sympathy? There is a river next to it, but I am paranoid about the water in the bottle.
Is the water in the bottle necessarily better than the water in the river? Maybe after a long time in a bottle, the water has been full of all kinds of bacteria and parasites.