So we have to learn to face, some things are uncontrollable, so we have to face.
Talk about the relationship between college students. I don't think there is much difference between those particularly good friends. They can still go crazy together and have fun together.
The simple relationship between classmates has really alienated a lot. Everyone is thinking about what to do in the future and is working hard for it. The relationship between classmates is only in the same classroom. The song "You at the same table" is not applicable in college, because many times you don't know who your deskmate will be in the next class.
In high school, students are likely to become friends, while in college, they are often like-minded but not necessarily classmates.
It's a mess, but it's still related to everyone's attitude towards making friends, not necessarily.
Is it difficult to get along with college classmates? There is no difficulty.
They are all people who come out.
Everyone wants to meet some people from different places.
This is the interesting part of life.
Is the relationship between college students beneficial? Although college is a half-society, just like high school, there will still be pure friendship, including people you like, people you admire, friends you want to make, people you admire, but there will also be people you hate and people you hate. Interpersonal relationships are important everywhere. Believe in your true feelings, others will feel it.
How to deal with the relationship between college students? First of all, we should be kind, calm and childlike. Only kind people can be kind to others without asking for anything in return. In addition, efforts to improve their own quality are not only their own cultivation, but also their own cultural quality.
Second, keep a sense of humor, learn to think more about others and care about classmates and friends around you.
Third, keep a low profile, everyone has envy and even extreme psychology. If you are excellent, don't be sharp-edged, but be introverted.
Fourth, we are not good people. I am firmly opposed to being a good person and making others look weak. When you are kind to a person, you don't ask her for something in return, at least you get her affirmation. If you can't see her affirmation, give her up. Such a heartless person does not deserve to be so kind to her.
Finally, I hope you are getting better and better and everything goes well.
How to adjust the relationship between college students is of course good, and students with poor family conditions should get scholarships. People who fish in troubled waters have a bad life and their families are not poor, so the guy who spends money on scholarships to drink should have a private talk with them and make it clear that this is not possible. You are good friends with them at ordinary times, but you are the monitor in class work. You are a good monitor and can make people believe in your monitor. Never engage in relationship bonuses, and try not to give them to good friends. Unless he is really poor and doing well. Performance here refers to grades and truancy. You should master the information of each student in detail. Convince people by reasoning, and do the work absolutely openly, fairly and justly. Let everyone believe that it is no problem to give it to you. We must have a clear conscience in everything we do.
How to deal with the relationship between college students? After entering the university, freshmen hope to have rich interpersonal relationships and friendly, warm and harmonious interpersonal relationships. However, after several months of collective life, some students have harmonious interpersonal relationships and are full of energy, while others have bad interpersonal relationships and are very depressed, which has affected their study and life.
From psychology and the daily life of freshmen, it is not difficult to find out that some students lack a correct understanding of interpersonal communication, some students have personality problems and some students lack experience and skills in interpersonal communication.
College students' bad cognition of interpersonal communication can be divided into two categories. One is to take others as the center and care too much about whether others are satisfied and happy; One is self-centered, everything is based on personal interests and hostile to others. These two kinds of bad cognition will lead to communication difficulties. The specific psychological activities are as follows:
Centering on others:
I must establish a close relationship with everyone around me;
If a person is not good to me, it means that there is something wrong with my interpersonal relationship;
I should always think about whether others are interested in associating with me;
When you accept others' help, you must give it back immediately.
Self-centered:
People are selfish and untrustworthy; Some people are selfish and unable to associate with them;
If you know more, you will lose.
People are nice to me because they want to take advantage of me.
Personality factors are very important in college students' interpersonal communication. Bad personality traits or personality defects are easy to give the other person a bad evaluation, resulting in unpleasant feelings and insecurity, thus affecting interpersonal communication. Common personality defects include selfishness, hypocrisy, disrespect, revenge, jealousy, doubt, demanding others, excessive inferiority, complacency, loneliness and stubbornness. These personality defects seriously affect the communication between classmates. Therefore, it is very important for college students to constantly improve their personality.
For college students, the lack of interpersonal skills is also one of the reasons that affect interpersonal communication. Some students have realized in their daily life that they often want to care about others and don't know where to start; Want to praise others but don't know where to start; Trying to coordinate interpersonal relationships is more complicated; I want to be nice to others, but I can't control my impulse and my language is blunt. Interpersonal communication ability is the synthesis of a person's knowledge, personality, cultivation and various psychological abilities, which reflects a person's comprehensive quality. While cultivating and improving interpersonal communication ability, college students should also pay attention to the cultivation and improvement of their comprehensive quality.
The problems and main reasons that are easy to appear in the interpersonal communication of freshmen are aimed at strengthening their mental health, so as to establish harmonious interpersonal relationships. So how do freshmen build good interpersonal relationships? The following principles can be followed:
I. Principle of equality
Equality means mutual respect. Seeking respect is a human need. The main purpose of students' communication is to accomplish the learning task of the university together, which stipulates that students should be equal in personality, help each other, and actively understand and care for their classmates. Suhomlinski once pointed out that don't hurt the most sensitive thing in others' hearts-self-esteem.
Second, the principle of compatibility
Compatibility is manifested in students' understanding, care and love. Conflicts often occur in interpersonal communication, some because of different levels of understanding, some because of different personalities and tempers, and some because of bad habits and hobbies, which will cause certain misunderstandings between each other. If both sides can treat others with tolerance, many conflicts can be avoided.
Third, the principle of mutual benefit.
The ancients said, "Give it a peach, give it a plum." The principle of mutual benefit requires us to understand each other's values, care and help him more, and keep each other's gains greater than losses, so as to maintain and develop good relations with others.
Fourth, the principle of credit.
Credit means that a person is honest, does not deceive the other party, keeps his promise, and thus gains the trust of others. In interpersonal communication, there is a sense of security in dealing with trustworthy people, and anxiety and doubt in dealing with untrustworthy people. For every adult and student who is determined to become a successful person, keeping promises will add luster to your image.
How to treat the relationship between college students? Everyone lives for himself. If you don't understand this truth, you will be very tired. Slowly adapt to this society, first learn to respect yourself, and after you have your own judgment, you won't be too surprised to see anything. Because it happens often, you get used to it.
At present, the relationship between college students and the mode of getting along with each other depend on each other to understand. Because each individual's state is different.
There is a suitable pattern between them.
The relationship with classmates and friends, this kind of thing can't be tolerated in silence.
I don't know what kind of personality you are.
However, if you are not introverted, they are likely to be interested in you and want to get your attention. If they call you "brother" again, just respond when you flatter. Make fun of them if you have nothing to do. Not that we have to learn from them or anything. You don't have to learn from them. If you're not bored, call each other brothers on the surface and try to get on well with them so that they won't bother you again. Starting from a person, (I don't think the psychology of high school students is so insidious) gradually you won't feel what you feel now, and you can also exercise your ability to deal with people.
If you belong to the type of "don't eat human fireworks, study hard", you can also give them more smiles, praise them at will, praise them hard, and embarrass them with all the good words!
Don't be troubled by such trifles.
At that time, I also encountered this situation.
The important thing is, how dare others respect you and do this? ! Make them think you're not easy to mess with Just bluffing, don't go out of line.
Of course, if you still ignore them, you may be cut off, which may be a good idea.