College is pursued by junior girls, but I don't want to fall in love now. How should I deal with it?
If you don't want to delay other girls and concentrate on your studies, it is suggested to make an appointment to meet and make it clear, so that the little girl's time will not be wasted on you and there will be no result. If you think it's more decisive to speak directly, you can also see her after graduation. Judging from your statement, the little girl should have liked you for a long time, so summon up the courage to confess to you. Courage is commendable at this point. The feelings in college are really pure. After entering the society in the future, all the contacts are material or beneficial, and you can also seize this opportunity. Being cold will also kill others' enthusiasm. The cold war is the best refusal. Direct refusal may hurt her heart, but in the long run, it will not cause emotional waste. At the same time, I suggest you be clear, make friends with her, and make a decision after a long time of contact. We must take care of girls' self-esteem and prevent emotional communication between the two sides. Emotion is the product of two people's efforts and two-way running, not to say that one person's one-man show, one person's efforts have no good results. I'm not so good as to refuse to talk. I want to concentrate on my major now and don't want to be distracted by other things. I'll think about our relationship when we are both good enough. In this way, I rejected her while taking care of others' self-esteem, and gave her hope at the same time, which would not stimulate her mood. You deserve better. It is euphemistic to often reject girls in TV dramas, or to tell each other clearly that I can't give you the future. I don't want to waste time falling in love when I should be trying. I also want to carpool for my future life and meet an excellent person when I am good enough, instead of starting a relationship hastily. Youth is for struggle. If you can't say no, you can choose to play dumb and pretend not to understand her enthusiasm and thoughtfulness, so that she can feel your perfunctory, but the more enthusiastic, the more painful it will be, which will hurt the girl.