1, I feel inferior for a long time and feel that my ability is insufficient. Xie Lili, an associate professor of criminal psychology at People's Public Security University of China, believes that genetic inheritance, strict family education in childhood, simple and rude words and deeds of parents or caregivers may all lead to a person's excessive inferiority, or a complex personality with inferiority and conceit.
In the minds of such people, self-esteem is even higher than life. Whenever he encounters setbacks, he wants to prove his ability through violence and vent it on the objects he thinks are safe. Those with sexual dysfunction are more likely to have domestic violence.
2. Feeling isolated and lacking social support. In order to get family or social support, some people subjectively think that they are isolated and prone to domestic violence when they encounter negative events. There are also some people who are spoiled by their families in their early years, forming extreme self-character defects and prone to violence when things happen.
3. Lack of social skills and self-affirmation. If you live in a family with childhood problems, for example, parents or family members often use violence to solve problems, then this person cannot acquire normal family ethics and social skills. I still don't know how to communicate correctly as an adult, and I don't know how to play a family role after marriage. They mistakenly believe that domestic violence is normal. People who lack self-affirmation often pretend to be strong (such as violence) to prove themselves to the society because of their fragile hearts.
4. Have a history of mental illness. Under the influence of mental symptoms, mental patients may have violent behavior. In addition, physiological abnormalities, organic diseases, endocrine disorders and so on. It may all have something to do with the violence getting out of control. Those who have a lot of psychological trauma and problems may detonate their inner "explosive barrels" and commit violent acts because of trivial matters.
5. Have a history of alcoholism and drug abuse. Most people have the ability to control behavior, but people who take drugs and drink alcohol are prone to violent behavior, because their brain structure is changed by drugs and alcohol, their personality and personality are distorted, and they partially or completely lose their cognitive function and self-control.
6. Weak impulse control and other antisocial behaviors. The perpetrators themselves may have personality defects. When they encounter negative life events, they don't restrain themselves with social norms and ethics, but deal with them in a negative way, which leads to the bad behavior not being corrected and further strengthened, forming a vicious circle. When the individual's inner anxiety and frustration rise, emotional behavior is also easy to get out of control and vent through violence, resulting in anti-social behavior.
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