When you fall in love in college, you can also consider your parents' financial situation, which shows that you are a child who understands your parents and cares about your family. In my opinion (1), it is very important to give gifts to each other when you are in love, especially for boys to give gifts to girls. It's not that girls are greedy, because a gift may contain a thousand words, even better than direct oral expression. For example, a pair of gloves and a warm handbag in cold weather. You know that, right? (2) Since the friendship contained in the gift is more important than the gift itself, it is not a problem whether it is expensive or not, so everyone makes a choice according to their own economic strength, so I believe your parents can understand and accept it. Remember, don't try to save money for expensive things without eating or drinking, which is very irrational. If this is what you want to give her, you can aim at it and try to buy it for my wife in the future; If this is what a girl asks of you, then your girlfriend … besides, you have the ability to make money! Scholarships and holiday jobs are very suitable for students. For example, my brother can earn one or two thousand yuan a semester, so boys should not be afraid of suffering! * I think, as long as you can almost balance these things, then your current confusion should not be confusion. No, young man, love in college needs to be enjoyed and experienced, so don't think too much. If you love deeply enough, nothing else is a problem!