Although a little pessimistic, it's true! Of course, you may have really made good friends, but it is necessary to guard against others. We shouldn't show it in front of annoying people. After all, it's not good for us. Don't find yourself a stumbling block because of your own characteristics Don't leave out anyone when you divide things in a dormitory. There is a saying that "it is better to leave a group than to leave a group". If you really miss one, the other party will hold a grudge! We don't need to make trouble for ourselves. For the person we like, we should not give her delicious food alone in front of everyone. If you really want to give it to her, you can choose to give it to her when you two are alone! Learn to express your views. When faced with the problem of choice in the dormitory, try to choose an option (if you really don't know what to choose, you can hesitate occasionally). Don't keep saying, oh, I don't know, whatever, I'll choose whatever you choose, how I choose ... and so on. In the long run, people will think that you are a person with no opinion, and naturally they will gradually ignore your feelings.
We can generously say what we want (even if it is really difficult to choose, we should choose one), so that when we are really faced with important choices, we will also improve our determination. In the last article, a sister commented that her roommate was talking too loudly on the phone at night. She said shyly, I think I can gently remind her that it is possible that she didn't realize that her voice was too loud to disturb the other party. It is better to express her thoughts directly with her distress here!