With the psychological maturity of college students, their inner feelings are rich and their psychological endurance is weak. From a closed, narrow and depressing middle school environment, they stepped into the open, broad and complex beauty museum of the university, and their horizons were suddenly enlightened. International political structure, domestic reform and opening up, self-future design, interpersonal communication, marriage partner selection, etc. Are the objects they care about. Rely on self-reliance
With the establishment of consciousness, they began to observe things in the way of perceiving the world unique to adolescence and experienced various complex emotional changes. Teachers' feelings, friendship, love, affection, sympathy and justice have enriched the hearts of college students. However, the proportion of only children among college students is high, and they have not received psychological education and social adaptability education, which makes them show poor ability to adapt to college life, poor psychological quality, and lack of faith, perseverance, enterprising spirit and endurance. A little achievement will make you cocky and get carried away, and when you encounter setbacks, you will be depressed and frustrated. Even the trivial matter of lovelorn life can't bear it, or it is brutally retaliated, or it is painful. Decadence, depravity and suicide happen from time to time.
Weak ability to resist setbacks and poor sense of economic independence. Contemporary college students have lived a carefree and responsive life since childhood. When they step into the university campus, they find that there are many talents, and all kinds of competitive pressures become greater, so that students with excellent grades no longer have a sense of superiority after entering the university. Moreover, at present, college students have little social experience, and they are not comprehensive enough to consider things, immature and extremely sensitive. When they leave their parents to deal with problems such as study, emotion, interpersonal relationship and social relationship independently, they are not good at self-regulation and dare not face these setbacks and difficulties, so they will have negative emotions or extreme behaviors, and their ability to resist setbacks is very weak, which is extremely unfavorable to the future development of college students. In addition, due to the improvement of the whole social and economic conditions, people's living standards have been greatly improved, and parents' preference for the only child has made many children develop the habit of reaching for food with clothes, and they have lacked economic independence since childhood.