It is conceivable that a 2-year-old girl who just learned to walk and gradually learned to run and jump was hacked to death from her head by a 19 freshman boy Yang on a spring day in March. The plot is bad, the means are cruel and outrageous.

1, emotional problems are the key. According to Yang's father, Yang usually has a bad relationship with the boarding house, classmates and teachers, and even stays at home for academic, emotional and physical reasons.

Before the case happened, Yang's father was communicating with the school leaders by telephone at home, presumably because Yang's performance at school caused widespread dissatisfaction among managers and teachers. Yang's father tried to explain and persuade, but it is very likely that Yang's road to returning to school was not smooth. So, Yang was angry from the heart, suddenly picked up the kitchen knife and rushed out the door. When he met a girl who was playing, he cut it five times and used it as an object of emotional venting. Even after his arrest, Yang was still emotional and shouted "revenge on society".

One is a 2-year-old girl at the beginning of her life, and the other is a problem student who just entered the university. What made Yang kill her heart and ruin each other's future and life?

2. Pay attention to psychological barriers. From the clues before and after the incident, it is not difficult for us to analyze that Yang is an extremely impulsive and emotionally unstable young man. It is even possible that he is mentally ill in terms of emotional character.

As the saying goes, "knowing a son is like a father", we have reason to believe that Yang's parents know and understand his psychological state better than anyone else, and know that his children are troubled and miserable because of dropping out of school and going to school, but whenever something happens, he will be furious and get carried away. Therefore, as parents and family members, when Yang's mood is unstable, the first thing to do is not to sneer, beat and scold, and continue to stimulate and mobilize children's negative emotions, but to do so.

However, we later learned that Yang's father first talked to Yang, and then took the initiative to call the school to confirm, either with a grain of salt to Yang's confession and description, or convinced of the cause and effect of Yang's whitewashing, so he was eager to confirm whether what his son Yang said was true or not from the school's opinions and attitudes.

Unexpectedly, it was this ordinary telephone from the father's point of view that instantly triggered and detonated Yang's anger, which led to his "passionate murder" and ruined the life of a 2-year-old girl.

3. Parent-child communication should be reasonable. In fact, it is nothing new for freshmen to have psychological and emotional problems.

Children in China have been indoctrinated by their parents all day since childhood with the idea of "as long as they are admitted to university, they can do whatever they want". Therefore, in the hearts of many children, I always feel that "as long as I am admitted to the university", then I can be willful, without studying or being sensible.

And the result? Every year, many college students relax their requirements and spend their youth on games, entertainment and love after studying hard for more than ten years and trying to get into an ideal university. Some college students, after three years of "militarized" school education and "high-pressure" family education in high school, only know how to study, but don't know how to communicate, understand and care about others' feelings, and even have no basic self-care ability.

In such an environment and premise, it is really not surprising that there are college students like Yang who are withdrawn and extreme and do not know how to adjust their emotions.

So "19 Guizhou college students hacked to death a 2-year-old girl" seems to be an accident on the surface; However, judging from Yang's emotional problems, psychological obstacles and various problems of parent-child communication, it is not only Yang who made mistakes in such a tragedy.

It was the education of school and family that pushed this 19-year-old college student out of the door and ruined his life.