In daily life, he should feel the expectations of his parents, and even feel the pressure of his parents to "dream of success". In his mind, he may be insecure. Because he is not sure whether his parents will be disappointed in him if he doesn't do well in the exam. He's not even sure if he doesn't do well in the exam, his parents will not love him.

What should parents do when children say these words?

First of all, give children appropriate encouragement.

If a parent always deliberately pursues his child's grades and asks him to be the first in the exam without caring about his heart, then the child will care more and more about his grades. He will use good grades to gain the attention and praise of his parents, which will lead to greater pressure.

When the child asks you "What should I do if I fail the exam?", be sure to tell him. Achievement is not everything. If you think you have done your best, that's enough. Don't put too much pressure on yourself, as long as you feel that you don't regret recalling this time after many years.

Second, don't care too much about children.

Sometimes parents will be more nervous when they arrive at the college entrance examination. They always feel that they should provide logistical support to their children and provide them with the best environment. For example, roast goose, trotters and braised pork, which have not been eaten once in half a month, are now cooked almost every day. Although there is no pressure on the surface, children will feel pressure subconsciously due to sudden changes in diet. What parents should do at this time is to pay attention to food safety and maintain a balanced diet.

Third, don't add nutrients indiscriminately.

Some parents like to supplement their children's nutrition the more they go to the college entrance examination. Either Red Bull or Brain-strengthening Oral Liquid, this behavior must be put an end to. Because some foods children are not used to, it is difficult for us to guarantee whether they will affect their normal performance in the examination room. Take coffee for example, the average person will have a refreshing effect after drinking it, but some people will accelerate their drowsiness after drinking it.

To sum up, what should I do when the child says "I can't pass the exam?" Parents must not do anything that increases their anxiety and stress.