1, accept the reality of no friends.
There is no shame in eating alone, going to class alone and going to the toilet alone. In fact, there are a lot of such people in school, so don't be hard-wired into different circles. You read books and he plays games. You have classes, he sleeps in the dormitory: you review, he goes out to drink: it's a waste of time for you to make such friends. If you walk well on your own track, you will meet like-minded people.
2, less brush friends circle.
Brush more every day, people who don't like you will still dislike you, people who don't look for you will still not look for you, and the intensive photos you send will not be PS twice. The life that others have exposed may not be what you want to see. It is most important to concentrate on doing your own thing.
Don't tell others what you haven't done.
For example, if you are preparing for the top ten of the final exam, don't take photos of yourself reading in the circle of friends first. When you are close to the top ten, send it to a circle of friends and everyone will praise you. If you talk first and don't do it, people will think you are a fool who can only shout.
Your roommate may be your best friend all your life, or a stranger who has lived with you for four years.
But in any case, there is no need to be an enemy. Don't discuss your absent roommate behind your back with any roommate, because you never know whether he will betray you next second.
5. Keep your temper and bottom line.
It is simple to lose money again and again, and it is foolish to lose money all the time. When you bring snacks and water back to your roommate, be sure to ask them to give you money. Don't think that if you don't give a few dollars, you will forget. After that, you will never get it again. If they don't give it to you the first time, don't expect them to find it for you suddenly.
6. Don't take a part-time job for the purpose of making money.
A part-time job that can't make you progress is a waste of your time and turns you into a cheap labor force without brains. If you have this time, you might as well read more books. Be sure to choose a part-time job that is helpful to your ability and employment, such as tutor, part-time translator, dance vocal music teacher and so on.
7. The dormitory is where you sleep.
I don't want you to lie there all day doing nothing. When there is no class, go to the library to read, run, take a walk in your city, sign up for a class, and learn your specialty. You are paralyzed in the dormitory eating takeout and complaining that life is boring and you don't know what to do. In fact, there are many things you can do, but you don't want to do it yourself, just like slacking off in your comfort zone.
8. I wake up every day and regret sleeping last night.
My eyes were blurred, I was in a trance, my limbs were weak, I went to the classroom in a daze, and after listening to two sentences, I began to be in a daze. After being in a daze, I did nothing. Going to bed early and getting up early can not only prolong your time, but also enable you to finish your daily work efficiently and quit staying up late, and you will find that porridge in the morning is better than wine in the middle of the night.
9. University is where you make mistakes.
You have to accept the whip of the university before you can accept the whip of the society. Before entering the university, you may be the "child next door" in everyone's eyes. Everything is right, even farting smells good. When you enter the university, you will find that your ability is not that strong, and many things you do will be wrong. However, the university is to let you make bold mistakes, with low cost and low risk, and let you realize your own shortcomings and correct them.
10, drinking is ok, not drunk; Love is ok, but pregnancy is not.
Learn to protect yourself in everything and never give anyone a chance to hurt you. At the age of 20, your most precious thing is yourself.
1 1, mind others.
Look at yourself more, don't let others play games without reviewing, and you don't review; Don't let others skip class and sleep, you also sleep with them; Don't let others cheat in the exam, and neither do you. His father found him a good job. What about you?
12, in college, your roommate won't wake you up without your mother.
Set your own alarm clock, and the teacher won't rush you to study. Be conscious. Don't believe what the high school teacher said: "It will be easy when you get to college." Nobody will care about you. You have to take care of yourself. In college, the winners are those who are self-disciplined. 13, encourage and appreciate others generously, and give others affirmation and encouragement. For example, give me a compliment in the little red book. Paying attention to me is the greatest encouragement!
14, good-looking people are always easy to walk, and it is very easy to take off the bill.
No one, male or female, likes a fat man with acne all over his face. Don't stuff everything into his mouth, spend the time chasing plays and playing games on fitness. Girls can learn some makeup properly, and proper makeup will be a plus item for you in the future. Your goddess is actually a strict manager.
15, don't be the dog licking of the seniors.
Most of them will only show off to you, and there is nothing to teach you.
16, the student union is actually not as awesome as you think.
Many people joined in to make up for it. They have meetings with a large group of people every day, staring blankly, wasting time and learning nothing. If you want to really get exercise, you should either run for the post of minister or run for the post of chairman, or go back and study hard.
17, control your consumption desire
Always remember that you are only a student, and those things that are excessively consumed are uncomfortable to use even if they are bought. It is harmful to family and yourself to take on high loans for these things that only satisfy vanity.
18, cramming is really useful.
Some classes may not be very important, and I don't usually listen to them, but one week before the exam, I must cram for the Buddha's feet. At the critical moment, the most important thing is not to fail the course.
19, there are many people chasing you.
Being warm and ignorant with you is nothing to be proud of. They probably just think you're easy to chase. Don't always hook up with other people's feelings for some benefits and your own vanity. All the gifts given by fate have already been priced in the dark. If you don't like them, make it clear as soon as possible.
20. Not all certificates have to be tested.
To distinguish the importance of certificates, we must verify CET-4, CET-6 and CET-2. Senior two must finish all the exams, and the harder it is to pass the exams in the future. Not your professional certificate, such as teaching resources, tour guides, nutritionists, etc., wait until you have time to take the exam.
2 1, be polite to the counselor.
Although he doesn't care much and doesn't see you very often, you still need his nod for all the important things in school, such as asking for leave to go home and coming back late from school.
22. Have your own opinions and thoughts.
Keep reading. Reading is the cheapest and fastest way to talk to high-level people. University is also the stage with the most reading time. Don't be influenced by the gossip in life, keep your thoughts and look for answers in books. There must always be a body and a heart on the road.
23. It's not that life is boring, it's that you are boring.
To maintain the love of life and the desire to explore the world, a person who loses the love and desire to explore will inevitably lose the fighting spirit. Little happiness in life does not exist, but we have not found it. Newly opened flowers, green leaves and sunny classrooms on the road are all happy places in life.
24. When you meet someone you like, tell him boldly.
Don't be embarrassed, if you are embarrassed, he will be taken away by others and become the object of others. Confession may not be successful, and it will not be successful without confession.
25. Have a good class.
Don't think that this teacher doesn't call the roll, and that teacher doesn't check people. It's great to skip class for a while. When you wait for the final exam, you will know what it means to skip class every day, and it doesn't matter if you don't think about it. Skipping classes is only zero and countless times.
26. Call your family regularly.
Your parents will worry and miss you when you are so far away from home. When you live a good life, don't forget to involve your parents and share some things in your life with them regularly, so that they feel closely related to your life.
27. Clubs are really useless.
I can't learn anything useful. Basically, every time a large group of people go to the club for a meeting, the president wastes time on the stage and the members waste time off the stage. If you really want to learn special interests, it is most effective to sign up for an interest class.
28. Pay attention to your hygiene.
Hair, nails, clothes, sheets and smelly socks should be cleaned frequently. People who love cleanliness are welcome everywhere, and those who don't love cleanliness are rejected everywhere, which makes you feel uncomfortable.
29, more internships in winter and summer vacations
These experiences will be a bright spot on your graduation resume in the future, which will be very helpful for your future employment. Don't think that you don't need to work hard on vacation.
30. Don't delay
When you have a goal and an idea, don't always think about doing it next time, let yourself act immediately and finish it. Only by taking the first step can we gradually get out of the back road. I hope your university will not be confused!