2. premature contact with society may lead to some bad hobbies.

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Rent a house, give a reason first.

What should I do if I find a boyfriend and girlfriend and there are many inconveniences at school? Part-time jobs always require overtime, and returning to the dormitory at night will affect students' rest. What should I do? What? Want to rent a house? Teachers and parents, the voice of opposition is very high, and the gossip is also very scary. Some rented students were killed, rented houses were stolen and cheated, rented houses were trapped one after another, and rents rose day by day ... rents? No rent? Where to go, see what they say!

There are more and more students in school, and they choose to rent houses off campus for different purposes, gradually forming a special group. This group is characterized by lack of social experience and limited economic ability, so there have been many illegal intermediaries who specifically swindle students. But at the same time, the phenomenon of students renting out houses is becoming more and more common. Whether to rent or not has become a puzzle for many students. Tenants, renters and neutrals hold their own words!

A, renting schools

There are many reasons for choosing to rent a house, but the biggest reason is freedom. Without the constraint of the housing management teacher, you can freely control your time and don't have to worry about your roommates' ideas. Play as much music as you want, and go home at night if you want. In a word, freedom!

Respondent: Yun Fan /20 years old/Beijing Institute of Fashion Technology.

University grade: sophomore

Lease time: 1.5 years

Reasons for renting a house: I studied design, used to stay up late and get up late, and moved out after living on campus for less than half a year.

Renting experience: Because the rented place is very close to the school, it is also very convenient to study. It feels good to share the rent with classmates and take care of each other!

B, refusing to rent

Renting a house is a big expense. Usually, the living expenses given by parents are difficult to maintain the expenses of renting a house. Therefore, people who rent houses generally have to do part-time jobs to relax their expenses. In that case, it will definitely affect their studies, and renting a house still has security problems. If sharing is involved, it is also the problem of the same renter. In short, it is very troublesome!

Interviewee: Xiaoxue/19 years old/Guangzhou Normal University

University grade: sophomore

Reasons for refusing to rent: The school is very strict. Generally, few people rent a house outside, and there are often news reports that a girl was killed renting a house herself, so she dare not rent a house easily.

Views on renting a house: Everyone has his own life rules. Those students who rent a house may really need independent space, but living in a dormitory can better cultivate people's team spirit, which is very important for their future work.

C, neutral

If you don't object, you won't easily rent a house. Rent a house has the freedom to rent a house, and it is convenient to live in a dormitory. But if there is no suitable reason and economic source at present, the rental plan will be postponed! However, there are certain procedures for renting a house. After graduating from college, the first thing you have to face is to solve your own accommodation, so renting a house is only a matter of time.

Interviewee: Crescent Moon /2 1 year-old/Wuhan University of Technology

University grade: junior year

Neutral reasons: Many students around rented houses, some felt good, and some unhappy things happened. But if conditions permit in the future, they may consider renting it.

Views on renting a house: As long as the economy allows, pay attention to choosing a safe community and choosing a good roommate. Renting a house is not a bad thing, and it can exercise a person's independent ability.

Expert advice, three ways to rent a house

Why do more and more students tend to rent houses off campus? Bian Xiao had an exclusive interview with several major universities on this issue. During the interview, some students made it clear that they were not used to the strict apartment management system of the school. Many students choose to take the postgraduate entrance examination or take various qualification examinations for professional needs, while there are as few as 4-8 students in the school dormitory, and their schedules and study habits are different, which inevitably interfere with each other. Require a quiet learning environment, only for rent. There are also some students who are more relaxed in their studies. For economic reasons, they use their spare time to do part-time jobs outside. Because of the limitation of commuting time, it is inconvenient to live on campus, so they choose to rent a house.

Students have their own views on the opposition in society. Most students think that the continuous expansion of school enrollment leads to insufficient hardware resources and poor accommodation conditions, which can not meet their diverse requirements at all. As long as you pay attention to safety issues and don't delay your study, the advantages of renting a house outside outweigh the disadvantages. It seems that they are going to rent the house to the end.

Then, in the fog of renting, how to ensure that the legitimate rights and interests in the process of renting are not infringed? How to find a house with reasonable price and suitable conditions? "20'" invites some rental experts for you, and introduces some simple and practical methods here, so that you can easily find your ideal rental house.

A, Guanzi /2 1 year/university of international business and economics

Recommended method: media search

Inquire about house rental information through newspapers and websites or log in your own rental information. Try to choose the information released directly by the landlord himself, in addition to accurate information, it can also save a considerable intermediary fee for students without income. It should be noted that a lot of information on the Internet is inaccurate or lagging behind, and even a lot of it is malicious information. Therefore, it is very important to screen the information on the Internet. It is best to choose some well-known websites, which can provide reliable information and provide a platform for renters to exchange experiences. In addition, more and more students rent houses off campus, and advertisements for renting houses can often be seen in schools. Most of these small advertisements are tricks of small intermediaries to cheat money, which is of no value to renters. Some of them are provided by residents with idle houses nearby to make some profits. This kind of housing is close to the school and has convenient transportation, so it is the first choice for students.

B. Lin Tao /22 years old/People's Public Security University of China

Recommended method: Ask friends, relatives and classmates.

This method is also very recognized by Bian Xiao. If you have a broad mass base, try to start. The advantages are mutual familiarity, high credibility, friendly negotiation to solve problems, and low possibility of conflict. The disadvantage is limited information and slow search speed, isn't it?

In recent years, with the increasingly fierce competition for enrollment in colleges and universities, colleges and universities around the world pay more attention to strengthening the construction of campus environment and improving students' learning and living conditions while paying close attention to teaching quality. Therefore, the accommodation conditions of students in major universities have generally been greatly improved. But at the same time, some students moved out of student apartments with good environment and conditions and chose to rent them out. Seeing that a student "rental fever" is quietly rising in many colleges and universities.

"Rent fever": Each has its own plans.

The author's investigation found that there are quite a few college students who have moved out of collective apartments and rented their own houses, but their intention to rent houses is roughly nothing more than the following.

On the whole, the "postgraduate students" have an absolute advantage in number. They think that although the conditions of school collective apartments are better, there are often more people living in them, which has a great influence on each other. Moreover, nowadays students are under great pressure to study, and the school library and reading room are too crowded every day. Therefore, it is far worse than "the corner of peace", renting a house alone, thus rejecting all interference and concentrating on reviewing for the exam. According to the information provided by a university student in Beijing, there were six students living in their dormitory at that time, and four of them were actively preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination. /kloc-after October, the postgraduate entrance examination is ready to enter the sprint stage. The three of them have moved out of the dormitory and rented a house in an alley near the school in a relatively quiet environment. They think that although this is an extra expense economically, it is beneficial for them to achieve their goal of taking the postgraduate entrance examination, so it is worthwhile. Compared with their dormitory, the proportion of renting a house outside the postgraduate entrance examination is as high as 50%! And as far as he knows, many people in every university in Beijing rent houses outside to study for graduate students. I believe this phenomenon is also common in other universities in China.

-going out to rent a house for personality reasons. These students are either not good at getting along with their classmates or are not used to collective life. Just like Li, a girl from a university in Hubei, once said to the author: "In a dormitory, even if you rub your feet, there will be several pairs of curious eyes staring at you at the same time. How uncomfortable! " Therefore, she feels that it is quiet and easy to choose to rent a house outside, and now most colleges and universities are recruiting students for the whole country. Because they come from different regions, roommates are likely to have some obvious differences in living habits and hygiene habits, so it is often difficult to integrate in collective life, and even some contradictions and disputes are easy to occur. So some students avoided it with the mentality of "not to be taunted, but to hide if they can", rented a house outside the school and created a real life world and free space of their own. The short rent market around the Beijing Small Language Enrollment Site School is on fire.

-renting a house in order to improve the diet. Generally speaking, the meals in the school canteen are either short of salt or oil, or a pot of "hodgepodge" every day, which finally has a little appetite, but the price is surprisingly high. Especially in order to provide food for thousands or even thousands of teachers and students every day, the sanitary quality of school canteens is bound to be greatly reduced. As for the meals provided in the school cafeteria, it is not uncommon to "dig" hair or even soy sauce bottle caps. So I can't stand this kind of school life, so many students simply rent their own houses and cook their own meals every day, so that they can "eat comfortably, drink safely and live comfortably."

-renting a house because the school accommodation fee is too high. The current student apartments are in good conditions and the corresponding expenses are relatively high. According to the author's investigation, it's not surprising that 500 yuan charges students' collective apartments 1 0,000-1a year. As for schools that charge 800- 1000 a year, many schools charge 500-0000 a year. In contrast, college students in some small and medium-sized cities think that renting a house is much more economical.

-live with your lover and create a "two-person world". The degree of sexual openness in China today cannot be exaggerated, but cohabitation among college students is indeed widespread. In 2002, a report in China University Magazine about condoms openly entering a university campus in Nanjing also caused an uproar in many other universities in China. According to a survey in this document, the proportion of college students in open coastal cities of China who have lived together or had sexual experience is as high as 60% in this area. Even in some small and medium-sized cities in the mainland, college students who have lived together or had sexual experience are not less than 20% of the total number of local college students. But after all, every school has its own rules and regulations, and the dormitory is obviously not allowed or suitable for these students to "live their ideal life", so renting a house is their best choice.

-As the construction of basic living facilities in some schools is seriously lagging behind, some students are encouraged to rent out. Since the implementation of the enrollment expansion policy, the number of students in a university in Wuhan, Hubei Province has increased dramatically, resulting in a serious shortage of student apartments in this school. In order to alleviate the temporary housing difficulties, in desperation, the school leaders had to mobilize a group of students to rent a house outside. According to relevant surveys, this phenomenon is not only found in Wuhan City, Hubei Province, so these students are also a group that cannot be ignored. Cheat rent by taking advantage of the time difference between the expiration of the store lease contract.

Other students: it's normal, and the views tend to be unified.

How to treat the students and roommates who moved out of the school collective apartment and rented houses outside, most students think it is understandable and acceptable. They believe that, after all, this is an era of pursuing individuality and advocating self. As a college student, they have the right to choose their ideal study and life style, regardless of their age or social life experience, and they are fully capable of solving a series of problems they face in their study and life. Now it's 2 1 century, and the doors of colleges and universities can't be closed forever. Obviously, the closed management mode that colleges and universities used to implement can no longer meet the development requirements of the times and the needs of college students to know society, understand society and participate in social life. Although school management is very necessary, it cannot always be reduced to unnecessary constraints on students.

Huang, from a normal college in Hubei, told the author that he was worried about renting a house outside, fearing that other students would talk about it, but later found that the result was not what he thought. With more and more students renting out, he found that they were not surprised when he talked with his classmates about renting out. And they also think that they are no longer junior high school students and senior high school students. They should have their own ideas and opinions and be fully responsible for their choices and actions. It is true that collective life can cultivate a person's group consciousness and improve one's ability to get along with others, which has its positive side, but most students have their reasonable side in renting a house, so it is really unnecessary for schools to control it so badly. On the contrary, it should give students more autonomy.

Of course, there are also a few students who disagree with this. They think that if this kind of renting group among classmates is too large, it will inevitably affect the normal life order and learning order of the school, so at least it should not be advocated. Beijing cracked down on car thieves, and renting a house to car thieves will be regarded as an accomplice.

School leaders: Different attitudes and opinions.

Although the "rental fever" caused by college students has not attracted the attention of university administrators today, many university leaders have expressed their views on this issue. Director Zhang, who is in charge of student affairs in a university in Hubei, believes that students renting out independently is not conducive to the unified management of the school, and there are huge security risks, which will bring a series of problems such as the waste of school resources and facilities and the inability to recover the funds invested in building student apartments. Therefore, schools are generally opposed. This phenomenon exists in large numbers, not because schools acquiesce in its feasibility, but because schools have not taken relevant effective measures to strengthen management.

According to the characteristics of different regions, the administrators of some colleges and universities comprehensively weigh the advantages and disadvantages of students renting houses outside and take relevant measures to effectively control them. For example, a university in Huanggang, Hubei Province has always adhered to a tough attitude. The school clearly stipulates that only day students in the city where the school is located can stay outside the school (of course, only at their own homes). If other students want to stay outside the school, they must submit a written application to the school and be strictly examined and approved by the school. For those students who rent independently, especially those who live together unmarried, once they are found out, the school will give them serious disciplinary action. At the same time, the school counselor has a fixed duty room in the student dormitory, which is convenient for checking the bedtime of students from time to time. Although some students in this school have a lot of complaints about this, the author finds that this move has really played an important role in reversing the school spirit and study style. School leaders believe: "The school is a place to train talents, and students should have a lifestyle and management model suitable for learning. Although the school's system and policies tend to be conservative, we firmly believe that this practice will outweigh the disadvantages in the long run. " Perhaps this represents the voice of many university leaders.

The leaders of Nanjing, Shanghai, Zhejiang and other universities believe that how to effectively strengthen student management in the new era and new historical conditions is a problem worthy of in-depth discussion. However, if the school is too strict, too wide and too detailed, it will weaken students' social consciousness and self-protection consciousness. In the long run, it will also lead to students' dependence inertia, which is not conducive to their growth and development. Therefore, they are much more open-minded and have much looser policies in dealing with the problem of students renting houses. But at the same time, they also made it clear that this attitude of the school does not mean complete laissez-faire. Rent a house for free and live in someone else's house to live our life (Figure)

postscript

In the new historical period, it is an old topic to discuss the current educational management model in China. But what we see is that the discussion is deepening, and at the same time, new problems in education management are constantly emerging. When we see a new group of college students-"renters", how should we know them? What should we do?