How to treat college students losing their first time?
Everyone compares college life to life in an ivory tower, carefree. We used to be too bound in high school, but now the university can finally be liberated, so many students began to degenerate and become confused. When I was busy before, I was tired, but at least I lived a full life, but now my life is suddenly a little empty, and of course I can also describe it as loneliness. Classes are a bit monotonous every day. We don't know what to do in those free time. I remember the word puppy love once came to my mind, and then everyone came to stop those high school romances. But now we can love bravely once in college, but when we are preparing to accept bravely, we suddenly don't know how to love and continue to be confused. If high school love is a bit naive, college love is a bit unrealistic. Many people fall in love with the hope of practice. What is practice? It is also a kind of puppy love. Now it is just an early practice. Although graduating from college now is not the same as breaking up, many people will choose reality because people are becoming more and more realistic. What is reality? Nowadays, college students are basically only children. If two people who love each other are too far apart, or across the ocean, how long can such love last? It is not that there is no love in college, but that these loves need too many tests. If these tests fail, they can only end in failure. Everyone has heard the saying that if two relationships are long-lasting, why should they be together sooner or later? So what is love? Love is just finding a warm partner for each other. Won't a long separation cool the temperature of love? Of course, at such a beautiful age, all of us believe in love. Love is beautiful, it enriches our life and gives us a kind of motivation. When the times are constantly changing, we suddenly find ourselves in such a technologically advanced society, and suddenly our feelings are getting less and less. Everyone cares about money or the so-called real society. What is a real society? Faced with interests and feelings, as a person who is about to make a choice, what should we think? Many people say, if you choose love, will life without bread be good? If you choose interests, will bread without life lose its original taste? College students are basically asking for money from home now, so who has the capital to explain and prove their love now? As a new generation of college students, how should we do such sensitive multiple-choice questions? When we face our lover, we quietly say, if you love me, please wait for me. When we are together, we are attached to each other and work towards love, not blind love. Love is always right. As a student, I still focus on my studies, so that I can say love.