In my opinion, falling in love in college is neither a bad thing nor a necessity. Although you are a college student now and live a relatively free life, you are still a student. College life is rich, not only with love, but also with a wide range of contacts, societies and so on. I think it's fate to fall in love in college! If you really meet people who are suitable in all aspects and like each other in college, then talk seriously! Be sure to talk seriously! Better have a future!
I have the following views on college students' love:
Viewpoint 1?
Don't fall in love for the sake of falling in love. In high school, our parents and teachers didn't let us fall in love, which was called "puppy love". When I arrived at the university, I saw that many friends around me were divorced, and I wanted to fall in love myself. How can you fall in love with a purposeful person? Sweet love should be both sides. If you fall in love just because you want to fall in love, this relationship will not last long, but it may hurt the other half's heart. This is irresponsible to others and to yourself.
Viewpoint 2
If fate comes and you meet someone you really like, I suggest you try to fall in love, but remember that the most important thing in college is to make yourself excellent. According to the statistics of 20 14, the success rate of college students holding hands from falling in love to graduation is about 50%, and less than 20% when they get married. Because the romantic love foundation of the school can't stand the impact of reality, once they graduate and set foot on the society, their ideas may change, and changes in values will lead to changes in their feelings. Love is not everything. What you should do most is to study hard, improve your conditions and provide security for your future. In this way, it is good for college students to fall in love: for her, you will want to be better, you will want to have a bright future with her, and you will want to work together. This has played a role in promoting mutual progress.
Viewpoint 3
Love is never something that can be predicted in advance. It may be a normal day, and you are not ready yet, but you happen to meet someone who you really want to be with, so you will struggle internally, and then you may be brave enough to get to know him and get to know him. In my opinion, the pure love of college students is a precious memory of their four years in college. I sincerely believe that college students' love can be very strong and can go to the end. After graduation, they may be tortured by reality, but if two people really love each other, they will tacitly consider the uncertain factors in the future. In this process, their minds will continue to mature, their emotional intelligence will continue to improve, and their positive motives and future plans will become more and more clear.
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I sincerely hope that everyone can bump into the right person and don't panic. When there is such a person, I strongly recommend that you have a firm relationship during college!