1, don't have too much hope and expectation for this relationship, because the greater the expectation for another person, the greater the disappointment. And don't have particularly warm and rich feelings to express with her, because it may also be a kind of pressure for the other party.

2. Keep your distance. Don't let others know Zhihu account and Weibo account after being together, and QQ doesn't need to be related. Because sometimes there are really some unnecessary doubts and doubts. And once this happens, it is difficult to dissipate.

3, don't fall in love, the university has more important things to do. A girl will not change her mind because you love her so much. She needs to see that you have advantages that others don't have, such as looks, experiences and achievements.

4, don't lie too much, paper can't wrap the fire.

Lies can calm each other down again and again, but this is only a stopgap measure after all. The most important thing for couples to get along with is trust. Don't consume this trust again and again.

5. Love is unfair. The more you give, the less you may get, and the less you will be valued and cherished.

Those who can't get it are always in turmoil, but those who are optimistic are fearless. Personal experience, falling in love in college, don't devote yourself wholeheartedly, but also set aside a considerable amount of energy and time to study, otherwise you may end up separated.