1, event review Yuan Jian, a student of Jiangsu University, a native of Hubei. Before his death, Yuan Jian and his mother met in the school cafeteria. Before the accident, Yuan Jian hugged his mother before leaving school, while Yuan Jian looked at her back and finally chose to leave this world.
For Yuan Jian, it may be because he met some problems in his studies that he chose to leave in this way. But for Yuan Jian's mother, she saw her son standing in front of her before. Four hours later, Yuan Jian's mother received the news of Yuan Jian's death.
This is a big blow to a mother. It is also irrational for Yuan Jian to choose suicide. Even if you encounter any difficulties, you can actually tell your mother, but Yuan Jian chose to leave this world. Even Yuan Jian's mother blamed herself for this, thinking that she didn't see that Yuan Jian's mood was wrong at that time, so she always blamed herself.
For parents, the biggest pain is that white-haired people send black-haired people. For parents, the biggest pain in the world is that white-haired people send black-haired people. For Yuan Jian, he may think that his death freed him from the pain, but for Yuan Jian's parents, he had to endure the pain of his son's death for many years.
In fact, for many parents, while paying attention to their children's learning, they should actually pay more attention to their mental health problems. If parents don't pay attention to their children's psychological problems, they only pay attention to their children's learning, even if they have something in their hearts, they won't tell their parents. After all, in the eyes of children, parents only care about their studies. As for what they are thinking, in the eyes of children, parents don't care.
3, personal thoughts For parents, in daily life, in addition to paying attention to children's learning, in fact, when getting along with children, you can enlighten children in the form of friends, let children open their hearts, and tell their parents their true thoughts. If children have any wrong ideas, at this time, as parents, they can give guidance to prevent children from going to extremes.