Third, the question that college students should pay attention to in falling in love is good or bad, should it be, should it be. This question is difficult to answer. Most colleges and universities have not made any hard and fast rules except those explicitly prohibited by military schools. However, there are several problems that college students must seriously consider when they are in love.

Case 46 "Strong Kiss" A boy in a higher vocational college kissed his classmate in front of everyone in the library study room, but the girl struggled desperately but failed to break free. Some boys came forward to stop him when they found something wrong. Several boys managed to pull him away. Unexpectedly, the boy didn't give up and kept saying to his classmates, "I love her, ask her!" " The girls on the side didn't respond, just bowed their heads and shed tears. The students around them couldn't stand it anymore, so they called 1 10 to call the police on campus. Finally, the school security cadres took the boy away.

Analysis: This boy lacks the healthy expression ability of love, and expresses his feelings about love in an inappropriate way at an inappropriate place and time. This kind of behavior belongs to psychological disorder. There are many students in higher vocational colleges who are not good at expressing their feelings and love. Crazy behaviors such as improper showing of love and intimate behavior in public are extreme manifestations, which can easily cause great psychological pressure, reputation damage and even psychological trauma to the other party and develop into sexual harassment.