Andy, the image of a strong woman. Capable, rational and economically independent. You can even tell Bao Xiao's father that you can use your own money to help the steamed stuffed bun make a comeback, which shows that his family is really rich.
Fan, female, graduated from university and now lives in Shanghai. In fact, if it was just her, she should be fine. But she has a big family to take care of.
Because her mother prefers boys to girls, and her brother is a giant baby in society, and he wants to make trouble everywhere. The expenses at home depend on her, and so does my brother when he is in trouble.
These two are not married in the play. If put in real life, who is more difficult to marry?
Andy has been a very professional strong woman in the workplace since she appeared. Her subordinates were frightened as soon as they met. Beauty is directly proportional to talent.
Andy has the ability and absolute financial freedom. How many people envy such a woman!
However, how many people dare to approach? Not to mention the inheritance of Andy's family mental illness, but this ability to absorb gold is not something that ordinary people can consume. Tan dare not be casual, let alone others? In this way, Bao Xiao has always loved Andy.
Therefore, for an excellent woman like Andy, most people may want to see it up close, only to find that they can only see it from a distance. Because I may not have the courage to get close!
Fan Meisheng is very beautiful and has many friends. A little vain, but kind and brave. In real life, there are not many such girls.
Besides, Fan is hard to marry. As she said, when it comes to marriage, people leave. Why? Because there are too many things at home.
Faced with such a complicated family, it is estimated that many people will shrink back at the thought of Mei Sheng, a good fan. First, it needs financial support, and second, it is too much trouble.
Andy is too easy to marry, and there are too many things in Fan's family to marry. This woman is really difficult!
But Andy himself is excellent. She can pursue pure love and not compromise on love. Fan can't help it, because she needs to compromise too much!
In real life, many women are neither weak nor incompetent. Compromise is for home, for parents, for children, but rarely for yourself.
In this way, in fact, I have paid a lot, and I may eventually lose myself.
So, be realistic, women still have to rely on themselves!
It would be nice if you could find someone who can share joys and sorrows with you.
If in reality, they really want to get married, it will be more difficult for Andy to get married! In real life, not only the woman picks the man, but also the man picks the woman. It will also be comprehensively considered from the woman's work, economic level, education level, family background and physical condition. In fact, through the description in the play, we can roughly see: 1. Both of them have their own independent jobs, are capable and suitable for the workplace, and belong to modern independent women. Although Fan Meisheng is not as good as Andy, he can live alone. So there is no choice between the two at work.
2. Economically, Andy will certainly be stronger. He is at least a boss. But men with good conditions generally don't mind.
3. With family background, Fan suffered again! Andy is an orphan. He has a good job, high social status and no worries. Fan, who is married and has children, is particularly unpopular with her husband's family. 4. but! ! Most importantly, it is also the reason why Andy will be more difficult to marry! ! ! That's Andy's genetic disease. Although this is not certain, it does have a family history. Andy may not get sick, but what about his future children? It's a one-shot kill. There is no money to earn, and Fan is versatile and more popular with men, so Andy's hidden illness is definitely more marginalized than Fan and his family.
In short, it is better to rely on your ancestors than on yourself!
Andy is already at a high level, and many people can't reach it.
The high academic qualifications are scary! Senior business elite returning from new york, Chief Financial Officer (CFO)
People are tall and beautiful, and their temperament is speechless.
Ability to do things! Only you can't think of it, and there is no huge knowledge reserve that she doesn't know.
Jesus, Lulu! Is this normal?
Indeed, she is not normal!
With high emotional intelligence and high IQ, she is really full of mystery about her life and is afraid that she may go crazy at any time.
Ordinary women are crazy, and at most they are bitches. There is a saying that you are not afraid of crazy people, that is, crazy people have high IQ!
Therefore, even if many people are attracted to Andy, they dare not.
However, in Fan's place, family conditions are too complicated, which many people realize when they get married, and it's not just a matter of two people! Maybe marriage can never be simply regarded as a matter of two people! The premise is that under the right circumstances!
Now marriage involves family. Is there anyone else in the family with a medical history? This connection can be traced back to great grandparents! You said you couldn't be angry!
The second is poor relatives, and many people are discouraged by "poor relatives"! Even if that girl is really nice! Unfortunately, there are too many poor relatives, and poor relatives are a group of unsatisfied "bloodsucking leeches".
Therefore, a good woman can never get married, and Fan is at least not bad. Although she is vain, it is good to be friends.
Vanity is not her fault. Born in a family, she had to love vanity, and she had to love vanity!
So she tried her best to catch a rich husband, but once and for all.
Fan has no background, scary education, and Andy's super high IQ and EQ, and he is getting older and older. A woman's age is a woman's greatest capital!
If she is as free as Andy, then these questions are not problems at all! And even if Andy can't get married all her life, her life will be superior!
Life is helpless, society is realistic, and only self-sufficiency can change the trajectory of life.
Women still have to rely on themselves, earn their own money and use their own money, instead of humbly asking men for it!
Women still have to rely on themselves! A woman on her own is much happier than a man on her own!
It's really not cool to use your own money than to ask others for it!
Andy and Fan are two people who live in two completely different times and have completely different personalities. Andy is strong and independent and has his own clear goals and values, which in turn makes his heart very closed. It is difficult for ordinary people to enter her heart, but if he meets the right person, such as Zong, it is only a matter of time before he gets married.
Fan's personality is also a little strong and independent, but she is more helpless and lonely. She needs friends to accompany her, and she also likes people around her, eager to be cared for and protected, so it is easier for her to find someone who loves her, but because of family reasons, it will be difficult for her to be accepted by her in-laws, so it is more difficult for Fan to marry. .
Personally, I think it's a fan Mei Sheng. The following is my opinion.
As far as age is concerned:
Fan is a representative of older women. Gao Fushuai looked down on her, and she also looked down on those who had no cars or houses. She picked and chose, missed the best age, and became an older woman.
Although Andy is the oldest, she never wants to get married, so she is not picky.
From the point of view of work:
Fan has worked in Shanghai for so many years and has been an office administrator. If she doesn't rise or fall behind, she won't progress. Although she finally moved to a platform where she could better show herself, she was still an ordinary white-collar worker, which was incomparable with Andy.
Andy, with an annual salary of one million, is the leader of a big company, and one person is less than ten thousand. This shows how good his work is.
From the family point of view:
Fan has a brother who only makes trouble without making progress, and depends on her for food, clothing, housing and transportation at home. Mom and dad are still so patriarchal. Her family problems are very serious in this play. If a girl like this is used in the real world, no one dares to marry. Marrying a daughter-in-law is not a matter for one person, but for two families.
Andy is an orphan. Growing up in an orphanage, she didn't know what affection was. If you marry her and treat her wholeheartedly, she will not hesitate.
Fan Meisheng has too many shortcomings, both family and individual.
Andy's weakness is a mental problem, which can be inherited, but in this modern society with more men and fewer women, this is really not a big problem, and it is entirely possible to adopt a baby.
In a word, Fan is a difficult person to marry, and her family problems are too big unless she can break off the relationship.
This problem should be viewed from different angles. Andy used to be difficult to marry. According to the present statement, it is very difficult for Fan to marry. In fact, objectively speaking, it is difficult for two people to get married. Therefore, from the perspective of power, Fan is difficult to marry, while from the perspective of reality, Andy is even more difficult to marry. If we have to compare, I think it will be difficult to marry Fan.
Why do you say that?
From the play, we know that Andy is a sea returnee, only talented and rich. Although Fan is just an ordinary white-collar worker, he is also handsome and talented, but his family is too poor and tired.
For the common view of marriage and love, it is reasonable to say that Fan is more likely to get married, but in today's society, her family will drag her down and affect her marriage and love. To put it bluntly, no one will marry her and their family at the same time. Of course, if a person really loves her and is willing to pay for her, that would be great. But reality is reality, and many people will flinch. Because I'm afraid their house is a bottomless pit. After all, it is normal for an ordinary person to be selfish, and whether he can be competent or not remains to be considered.
In reality, Andy's personality belongs to the high and low type, and her Excellence will make ordinary people feel out of reach, like a thorny rose. In front of Andy's beauty and talent, she is rich, feminine and gentle, and her Excellence makes many people flinch in reality.
However, marriage is often evenly matched. The love between Cinderella and the prince can't be said to be just a fairy tale, but it is a minority after all.
So, the situation is that if Andy happens to meet the person he falls in love with, then it is natural to get married. Just like Fan, it is more difficult to get married, because the current situation is that if you don't climb high, you can't climb low.
I'm glad to answer this question. I am the creator of the entertainment circle.
I think it is more difficult for Fan Meisheng to get married in real life.
The play tells the story of five girls with different life experiences, Rulu, Tamia Liu, Andy, Olivia and Qiao Xin, who gather on the 22nd floor of Ode to Joy. Each of them has a distinct personality, among which Andy and Fan are quite representative.
In the play, Andy, played by Tamia Liu, is an orphan from a poor family, who has no love from relatives since childhood. But God is also fair. Tamia Liu was adopted by a foreign family since he was a child. She is gifted and intelligent, and she does well in her study and work, which is also mentioned in the play. Lao Tan spent a lot of money to poach her from Wall Street, so her ability is still very strong.
Andy, who is smart, rational, independent and has economic foundation, is the best standard for boys to choose a spouse if put into real life.
On the other hand, Fan is not easy to get married. Why? There are mainly the following points.
1. Family reasons
Fan's family in the play can be said to have severely dragged her back. Let everyone look at it and itch. My lazy brother, my sister-in-law, I am preoccupied with my son's mother and my sick father. The actors are all in place and their roles are obvious. This is also part of the reason why Fan and I were entangled in both plays and did not get married.
In real life, if Fan wants to get married, any one will become an obstacle to Fan's marriage. It's not that the "man" is unwilling to take responsibility, but life is life, and no one wants to pay so much before marriage. Therefore, due to family reasons, Fan is difficult to marry in real life.
2. Self-reasons
Anyone who has seen Ode to Joy should know that both Fan and Fan have reached the point of buying a house, although they all failed to buy a house because of investment failure. But there is one detail that I don't know if you have noticed. In other words, when they were looking at the house, Fan didn't pay a penny, and all the money was given by his mother. But Fan wants to sign his name on the room card.
I think it is right to insist on writing your name in Wang Baichuan. Love belongs to love. If you insist on "not signing two people's names" as the standard to measure whether you love someone, it is moral kidnapping. Second, Fan is suing his brother. If he loses, his property will be counted.
From this point of view, Fan's so-called maturity is only "destroyed" by family work, and it is not really mature, and it is very inappropriate to rely entirely on anything. Therefore, for its own reasons, Fan is more difficult to marry than Andy.
3. Economic reasons
The new era requires equality between men and women, not only in enjoying rights, but also in obligations. Fan is not young and has no savings, so it is not appropriate to "carry a bag" directly. Of course, this is not absolute, just a personal opinion.
I summed up the above three reasons. Welcome to discuss the reasons why it is difficult for Fan to marry girls like Andy and Fan in real life.
This problem is obvious!
Who is Andy? That's an executive on Wall Street. It is difficult for China people to get ahead on Wall Street, especially women. So, Andy's identity alone shows her strength. Even if all her property is donated, she can easily turn over books with her strength.
But it is not reliable for the screenwriter to portray Andy as a "unsociable" person. After all, finance itself is a social work. Of course, there is no need to delve into this.
There is another particularly interesting place in the play. Andy dares to directly intervene in Bao's business, and she can even intervene in Qu's business project, which shows that Andy's background is definitely not simple. To tell the truth, this condition is a hot commodity anywhere in China. So Andy is not a problem of marrying or not, but a problem of marrying or not. As soon as she opens her mouth, the blind date will go to the Nile!
Speaking of Sister Fan, she is a little sad. This girl has all the conditions, but the family burden is too heavy. Her own conditions are ok, but her family prefers her son and her brother is a scoundrel. This kind of thing is really difficult to do. If your family is just ordinary, do you think you can support two families at the same time? Even if you agree, your parents don't agree!
So Andy and Fan, one is whether to get married, and the other is whether to get married! Sister Fan is really not easy.
In reality, it is easy to get married as long as you meet the right person, but now marriage is not just a matter for two people, but also a matter for two families, involving too many things. It's not just two people's emotional problems! Realistic problems are very important!
1. Andy, as the undertaker of the female role in Ode to Joy, has three advantages: intelligence, beauty and wealth. Indifference, suspicion and fragility are her shortcomings. The image of a strong woman. Capable, rational and economically independent.
As an elite of the upper class, she values not material things, but inner feelings. In fact, she is far purer than others, but unfortunately not everyone can have singular wisdom and courage of Bao Yifan.
Both Tan and Qi Dian treat her as a patient, and only he (Bao Yifan) treats her as a normal person. In the face of such a goddess, men are probably under too much pressure.
Second, Mei Sheng, a fan, is closer to reality than Andy-she grew up in a patriarchal family, and her parents only know how to squeeze themselves to support her younger brother; I hate a penny for a penny, but I still have to make every effort to maintain a glamorous and elegant appearance.
If girls are given a choice, most people like Fan, because she has been fighting for the interests of women from the perspective of women, while men in reality may not like her. It is a reflection of reality that she becomes a leftover woman.
After marriage, she has to bear not only her own extravagant expenses, but also the demands of her parents and brothers. This is the real problem! Every woman is not easy and has different ideas and experiences. I hope all women can be happy! Marry love!
Andy and Fan Meisheng are just two extreme types.
In the play, Andy just wants to work, while fans just want to get married. It is easier to get married, but happiness is another matter.
Andy is not so eager for marriage because of his own abilities and conditions, and his marriage conditions will not change with age;
On the other hand, Mei Sheng, a fan, regards marriage as a lifeline. She spends all her time outside of work relying on her rich husband. With the depreciation of her own conditions, she will make do.
In fact, the family background of these two people is not good, and Andy still has hidden dangers of mental illness, but her outlook on life is self-reliance and self-determination, so she lives the life we all want; Fan is a normal person, except for a son preference mother and a rogue brother and sister-in-law. But I think the main reason why Fan Meisheng was forced to do this is herself. She didn't agree with what her family did and was led by her family. It is her repeated forbearance and retrogression that makes her mother more and more extravagant. When the leprechaun took it out on her, everyone could see that it was very Japanese.