Its body is not straight, although it is disobedient. "
The words and deeds of parents and teachers have made children form a template for learning and internalization. If you can't do it yourself, but ask your child to do it, it will become empty talk. What kind of person do you want your children to be? What kind of person do you want to be first? (especially character, not achievement. Otherwise, you will not be convinced, and the children will not be convinced. Look at yourself, you have no right to ask me. It is also what the ancients called a teacher.
Rousseau-
"Where teachers lack love,
Neither personality nor wisdom can be fully or freely developed. "The famous Soviet educator Suhomlinski also said something similar:" Love is education, and there is no education without love. "Ask yourself, as parents and teachers, do you love children? Where there is a lack of love, there will be scars everywhere. Education without emotional input will become dry indoctrination, naked dogma and rampant theory, and often become a kind of knowledge violence, not education. Respect the law of children's physical and mental development, accompany children's growth characteristics at each stage, start with the relationship, love children, and then connect knowledge and wisdom.