Of course, many parents are reluctant to teach their children to cook, and they also have their own considerations. For example, when cooking, it is inevitable to deal with water, electricity, gas and some sharp knives. These things are likely to do harm to the safety of children. For safety reasons, parents naturally won't let their children cook.
For example, today's children are often very busy with their studies and life. Children are exhausted from studying at school, and if they are allowed to spend more time cooking, it is also suspected of wasting time.
Actually, as parents, we don't need to worry about this at all. Many parents don't want to teach their children to cook, but they just don't know how to teach them. In fact, as long as you do the following things well and teach your children to cook, there is no problem at all.
Parents should teach their children to cook, cultivate their interests, exercise their abilities and make them love life.
Parents had better cook with their children.
Many parents are reluctant to teach their children to cook. The most important reason is that they are afraid that knives, electricity and the high temperature during cooking will hurt their children.
However, parents must realize that as their children grow up, they will one day be separated from their parents and live alone. Children still have to deal with these things after living alone. At that time, if the children were completely inexperienced, they would also be in danger. At that time, as parents, they were probably not around their children at all.
As parents, we should first teach our children how to deal with these things.
After children 10 years old, parents can consciously teach their children to cook. Of course, in this process, parents still need to watch it to avoid accidents. Parents and children often cook together, which is not only conducive to the improvement of children's practical ability, but also can enhance the feelings between parents and children.
2. The frequency of cooking can be lower, and children don't have to cook every day.
The most important purpose for parents to teach their children to cook is to cultivate their practical ability and interest in life. It's not true that children are allowed to cook every day.
Many parents think that teaching children to cook will waste their time. It is a waste of time for children to cook every day. But if this frequency is extended to once a week, it will have no effect. In the heavy learning process, children can find time to cook with their parents, which can relax their nervous mood and achieve the purpose of decompression.
The key to teaching children to cook is to teach them practical ability.
Parents teach their children to cook, not to make them become chefs in the future, but to cultivate their hands-on ability and make them love life more.
In this process, parents should pay attention to cultivating their children's interest, rather than boring them when cooking. In the process of teaching children to cook, the number of dishes can be appropriately increased, so that children can regard cooking as an interesting manual class.
It is true that many parents always talk about how difficult it is to cook when teaching their children to cook. In this way, children can better understand the hardships of their parents. But in this way, children will easily get tired of cooking, and their enthusiasm for life will also decline.
For children, the most important thing in the cooking process is to improve their hands-on ability, so that children can love life more and enjoy life more. As long as these points are achieved, it will be of practical significance for parents to teach their children to cook.
Not long ago, a topic about "greasy middle-aged people" was released.1An advertisement about scrambled eggs with tomatoes was released in early October. So far, the debate about scrambled eggs with tomatoes continues.
More than 40% people can't cook. Should children learn to cook in family education?
Scrambled eggs with tomatoes, tomatoes or eggs first, how much oil and salt? Ian, who just went abroad to study, made a plate of scrambled eggs with tomatoes to entertain new friends, and urgently asked his mother in China for help on WeChat. He didn't expect the time difference of 12 hour. As for this advertisement, the focus of the debate is nothing more than that they are old enough to go to college, they can't even scramble eggs with the simplest tomatoes, and they don't know how to think of others. They wake up their mother in the middle of the night. How can they go abroad with high scores and low abilities? I can't even cook scrambled eggs with tomatoes. Family education is a failure. Flowers in the greenhouse will never grow.
Some people say that when you encounter an insurmountable crisis and have nowhere to bend, just like westerners, you will blurt out: "My God!" " The mantra of China people is "My mother!" This is not a lack of independence, but the subconscious. Netizen @ 中中中中 123394557 left a message in the comment area: Just like a scientist, it is very rare for him to cook. Because you can, it's not that simple to criticize him. Many people commented on why he didn't use the app to find the answer, but his first reaction was that his mother's cooking was the best, and her mother had experience, so she asked at the first time.
Different people have different views on this matter. Different angles have different answers.
In random interviews with several senior high school classes and senior primary school classes, the results show that the proportion of senior high school students who can't cook is over 40%, and the proportion of primary school students who can't cook is about 80%.
In the survey, there is a data worthy of attention. The proportion of students with generally good family economic conditions is low, and the proportion of students from migrant workers' families or families with poor economic conditions is high.
Children from poor families take charge early? Among the children who can cook, some parents exercise consciously in order to cultivate their children's independent survival ability; Some parents learn to cook when they have no time to take care of their boss. Have a certain natural interest in cooking and take the initiative to learn cooking.
Most people who can't cook are because parents don't want their children to delay their studies because of cooking, or parents are afraid that their children will hurt themselves because of cooking.
As for cooking, it does not mean that children must learn to cook. Learning is important, but it is also necessary to cultivate children's practical ability so that they can do something within their power after learning. Its main purpose is not to let children cook, or how delicious it is. Parents should not only pay attention to their children's scores now, but also pay attention to their adaptability to the future.