In the previous discussion about education, I once said that because everyone is born with different material foundations, children will have different development foundations in infancy. So babies, even at the age of eleven or twelve, show different degrees of intelligence.

Of course, on the one hand, the intellectual development of most children is similar, among which, the level of intellectual development of girls is slightly higher than that of boys, because during the pregnancy of mothers, girls generally develop better than boys, most of them are pregnant, and boys are generally born a few days in advance; On the other hand, the growth and development of babies are different because of the different living conditions in their growth and development stages, that is to say, their intellectual development is different. Fortunately, we have the phenomenon of physical maturity. Simply put, even if babies are stunted, when they grow to a certain extent, their intellectual development level will reach a mature level, which has been confirmed in life, education and teaching practice.

Some children don't study very well in primary school, but they will learn better and better in junior high school and high school. This is more obvious in boys, especially after junior high school.

Some poisoned chicken soup said: you can't lose at the starting line. This is sheer nonsense. Every baby is born in a different situation. How can you ask for the same? If children must learn early, they should also look at their talents and interests, otherwise, pulling out the seedlings will encourage them.

In fact, some children are mentally retarded, showing poor academic performance, so that they are called "poor students" and "students with learning difficulties". Parents and teachers are often in a state of anxiety, anger and anxiety. So they will blame the children and even beat and scold them. It is better to go to the hospital in a hurry, find someone to make up lessons everywhere, and take part in this class, which class has no effect.

For children, they need a growing process and a well-nourished life. As parents and teachers, to be patient and tolerant is to wait patiently for the roses to bloom, and tolerance allows others to make mistakes.

Education is about patience and tolerance.

As parents and teachers, we should have such patience and tolerance. For "poor students" and "students with learning difficulties", we should have enough patience and patience in the process of their growth, so that they can develop slowly; For these students, we should make some "mistakes" from time to time and be more tolerant. In essence, these students' "small mistakes", such as short writing arms and legs, careless doing wrong questions and so on. They are all necessary exercises during their growth.

If parents and teachers can do this, you are the noble people in your child's life and the mentor and friend of your child's life.