Chen Lihua (Principal of Chaoyang Experimental Primary School)
Family plays an extremely important role in the formation of children's character, conduct and behavior habits. Mother is an extremely important role in the family.
A mother's strict requirements and too much control over her children may cause a strong sense of oppression to her children. Under the excessive control and intervention of the mother, the child has been in a depressed environment for a long time, unable to enjoy the happiness of childhood and difficult to have the ability to think independently. At the same time, the unbalanced family environment of parents' authority may make children gradually lose interest in interacting with others, lock their young hearts and become lonely and closed.
I think, a really wise mother will let go slowly and restrain her desire to control her children when they grow up. Don't be too picky about children, but give them a relaxed and free growth environment; Don't care about all the children's things, let them experience the ups and downs on the road to growth; Instead of imposing your wishes on your children, ask them what they think. Respecting their ideas and caring about their self-esteem is of great significance to the healthy growth of children's minds.
Second, education should serve children, not make decisions for them.
Liu Pengzhi (central research institute of culture and history librarian, president of the General Middle School attached to the National People's Congress)
Some scholars say that there are three important stages in the evolution of human civilization: the first stage is to discover people and liberate them from the shadow of God; The second stage is to discover women and liberate them from male domination. The third stage is to find children, let them get rid of dependence on adults and make the world more sunny and beautiful.
Today, China is in the third stage, the stage of discovering children. When we study the basic education in China, we must adapt to the background and discipline of finding children. When we engage in basic education, we should also persist in taking children as the center and firmly establish students' dominant position in teaching. There are many reasons for the problems in our basic education, but the deepest and most fundamental reason is that children are not the center and students are not the main body. In China, the historical task of finding children has not been completed. In the process of running a school, we think about problems and do things, and we think more about society, teachers and parents than students.
At present, the most important thing to do is to find children, return society to society, return teachers to teachers, return parents to parents, and finally, let students show themselves and truly become protagonists.
The starting point of teaching is students, and the final result is students. The most important thing to do things according to the law of education is to do things according to the law of children's physical and mental growth. Society, teachers and parents should serve children, not make decisions for them. The ultimate goal of our education is to make children achieve something in happiness and happiness. Only when children are discovered can China's basic education enter the new world and move towards a new era.
Third, what is the ultimate goal of educational value?
Liu Changming
(Chairman of the Senior High School Education Committee of China Education Association, former president of Beijing No.4 Middle School)
What is the ultimate goal of educational value? I think this is life, this is life. Life is not only an educational process, but also the ultimate direction of educational value. We say that education should be people-oriented, which means that education should pay full attention to people's lives.
What is the purpose of human creation of science, technology, art and religion? It is to improve human's material life and spiritual life and make human's life better and happier.
What is the purpose of human development education? It is to make human life and race continue better. If the purpose of creating science and technology and developing education is not for these reasons, and if human intelligence is not used to improve the happiness and beauty of life, it shows that there is something wrong with human society. This is by no means the main line and mainstream of human development. Similarly, if our education does not pay attention to people's lives, it means that there is something wrong with education. In my opinion, such education will lead human society to a dangerous future.
Education should not only be the training of survival skills, but its purpose and mission should be to guide and teach people to pursue a happy life, a noble life, a quality life, a valuable life and a meaningful life. The life mentioned here includes personal life, family life, professional life and social life. This determines that the purpose of education is not to train people into tools or machines. The purpose of education is to cultivate people. If education deviates from such purpose, purpose and mission, it shows that the values of education have been distorted.
Fourth, how can we find ourselves without our mother tongue?
Dou Guimei (Secretary and President of the General Party Branch of Tsinghua Affiliated Small School)
Su, as the president of Fudan University, said: "If Fudan University is allowed to take the entrance examination alone, my opinion is to take the Chinese exam in the first class and approve the papers after the exam. If you fail, don't do the following homework. You can't speak Chinese and you can't learn anything else. "
Why do I call Chinese my mother tongue? I have said this again and again. Because we have no right to love our mother tongue. A child has determined his national language and the spiritual mode of his life from the day he was born. A person's language accomplishment, in a sense, is his cultural accomplishment.
We still lack a little understanding and awe of Chinese. Our children have also had some short stories and jokes, such as making sentences with "one by one". The students said: after work, dad went home one after another. How many dads do you have?
Did the children really understand the idiom "one after another" today? Our classroom is too busy now, and the teachers are too busy, because our education is too pale now. A new idiom, the teacher said to open the textbook quickly. You draw this idiom and test you later, so there is a joke like "My brother is thriving".
There are still some problems with our Chinese. Personally, I think math is quite enthusiastic. It is particularly necessary to reform now, such as separating arts and sciences. I have been in Beijing for more than ten years, and my Chinese must have improved greatly. I can't teach Chinese bit by bit.
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