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How to educate Dabao Bauer not to fight?
One: Don't say let Dabao make way for Bauer. I believe many mothers have made such mistakes when educating their two children. For example, when two children grab toys, their parents will always ask Dabao to give it to Bauer, and they will say that you have grown up and let your younger brother and sister grab it. This will cause a big gap in Dabao's heart, and he feels that his parents don't love themselves because they gave birth to a second child. Therefore, when this happens, we must first see who robbed who first, even if the second child made a mistake, let him correct it.

Two: Let them solve their own problems. There are two children at home, and the most common problem is fighting, because of fighting for toys and because he touches him. The famous actor Hooke also shared in the program that two boys in his family often fight, but he won't scold them, but let them solve it themselves. Apologize if anyone is wrong, and don't take sides because of age. Let both children feel fair.

Three: Let Dabao take care of Bauer himself. As a mother, of course, I want my two children to love each other, so when I take care of Bauer at ordinary times, I also want Dabao to participate, so that he will love his brother more and know that it is his responsibility, instead of saying that his brother or sister has separated his parents' love.

In short, families with two children should try to guide their children to solve their own problems, because once parents intervene, it may cause conflicts between the two children, so that Dabao knows that it is most important to take care of Bauer, and Bauer loves Dabao.