However, everything has two sides, advantages and disadvantages coexist, and so does swearing. Although its words are dirty and hurtful, they also have advantages. For example, when you face a bad guy, you are always bullied by him. Your IQ is not his opponent, your means are not his opponent, and your psychological quality is not good. When the law and morality can't restrain him, you will die soon, feel depressed and even want to die. Then you need to think about how to drain your bad mood first, and then think about how to be a civilized person, so that you can make your mood better by swearing. After all, in the face of garbage, we should say garbage, so as not to waste our energy and belittle beautiful praise.
Parents still think that swearing by children does more harm than good. In the final analysis, it is not conducive to his handling of classmates and affects his future life development. Therefore, it is understandable that parents panic and simply regard swearing as a heinous crime and then ask their children to correct it. After all, parents are thinking of their children. But children can't understand their parents' pains, are infected by people around them, and don't want to solve problems in a better way. That's why they swear and get into the habit. No matter how hard parents try to persuade them, they can hardly change.
As parents, in the face of children's repeated swearing, you can do the following two things:
1. Every time a child says a dirty word, the pocket money for that day will be deducted.
Parents can't scold their children. The problem is that children are not told the consequences of swearing. Parents who swear with their children may be considered rude by others, or they may be beaten by others in the future, but the children have never experienced it and do not know the seriousness, so they will not correct it. Therefore, parents should change their ways to let their children know the losses caused by swearing and let them care. For example, if a child swears every time, his pocket money will be deducted that day, so that he can't eat in the cafeteria with his classmates, he will feel lonely, unsociable and sometimes hungry, and naturally he will be forced to get rid of the bad habit of swearing.
2. vent your emotions in other ways.
Many children swear not out of malice, but casually, and then form a habit. Because they are angry or wronged and don't know how to express themselves, they can only use swearing to ease their emotions and let others know that they are unhappy, so parents can use another better method instead. For example, let children swear without dirty words, convince people by reasoning, and let others retreat through a three-inch golden tongue. Knowing your skills will make children more civilized and educated, and swear more advanced. Others will be afraid of you and dare not provoke you, instead of treating you as a rude person, which will also vent their emotions and hit others.