When children encounter difficulties, we can take the following specific methods to carry out frustration education:

First, listen to children's feelings.

Pay attention to children's emotions and listen to their feelings. Let children know that we care about their difficulties and setbacks, not just their success.

Second, encourage children to fail.

After calming children's emotions, guide them to think about the reasons for failure. Help them realize the reason of failure and remind them to avoid making the same mistake.

Third, help children establish a positive attitude.

Through conversation and encouragement, help children establish a positive attitude and correctly understand the value and significance of failure. Let them realize that failure is a part of life, and facing failure positively can help them grow.

Fourth, encourage children to dream and set goals.

Once children realize that failure is the mother of success, they can be encouraged to make their next goals and plans. Help them to establish a clear vision and goals, and take this as the direction of struggle.

Fifth, cultivate children's innovative ability.

Encourage children to come up with different schemes and solutions, so that children can exercise their innovative thinking ability. Help them look at problems from different angles and encourage them to try to solve problems in new ways.

Sixth, encourage children to learn cooperation and division of labor.

Let children know that sometimes one person can't solve all the problems and needs teamwork. Help children learn cooperation and division of labor, and let them realize that success comes from everyone's joint efforts.

Seven, encourage children to persevere and never give up.

Let them know that success requires time and patience and unremitting pursuit. At the same time let them know that failure is not the end, but a part of life.