Family is a child's first class, and parents are a child's first teacher. In the process of raising children, parents should not only cultivate their children's good behavior habits, good psychological quality and strong ability to resist stress, but also let them learn to be grateful.

First, don't do everything for children. If your parents protect your children too much, your children will gradually get used to being arranged by your parents and take it for granted. Over time, it will be difficult for children to thank their parents for everything they have done.

Second, let the child share more with others, and let the child eat alone from an early age, which will make him feel that it is natural for him to eat and have good things. If children are used to being given and only know how to take, it will be difficult for them to consider the feelings of others in their later lives. A person who doesn't know how to care about others and his parents will hardly become a caring person in the future.

Third, let children learn to put themselves in their own shoes, to find out how good others are to themselves, and to see the price that others pay to help themselves. Knowing others' help is not a matter of course, and parents are no exception.

Fourth, start with small things and teach children some basic social skills. Good communication can open the door to children's hearts. When others help us, we should take the initiative to say "thank you", and at the same time, guide our children to express their gratitude without violating the principle of honesty. If there is an opportunity, lead children to visit welfare homes and special education institutions, encourage children to make friends with children in poor areas, and stimulate their sympathy and gratitude in activities.

Fifth, let children start by thanking their parents, understand their parents' hard work and feel that their parents' money is hard-won. Many children boast about their family's power and money, but they may not know the ups and downs. There are 70% primary school students who think that parents should pay for themselves, and there is nothing to regret. Although parents do not ask for anything in return for their children's efforts, unconditional doting will numb their tender hearts.

Sixth, cultivate children to be filial to their parents, respect their elders and respect the thoughts and feelings of others. The essence of filial piety is gratitude to parents. If a person does not know how to be filial to his parents, there is no way to be grateful.