1, pay attention to the shaping of children's moral character. As parents, we should educate our children to distinguish right from wrong and reason, and resolutely abandon the educational method of "Laozi is the best in the world". If others offend an inch, you offend a foot, and you have nothing to lose. You can only fight back at the same level at most. Excessive counterattack itself proves that this kind of child is a haggard person, with small ambition and small measurement, which lays the groundwork for not doing much for himself. Basically lost at the starting line. This kind of children pay attention to small things and immediate interests, and the pattern is very small. In short, there is no promise in educating children!
2. Educate children to develop good habits, especially the habit of thinking. It makes sense that details determine success or failure. In infancy, children should be educated to be hygienic, polite and express clearly and completely. Don't take other people's things, don't be greedy and cheap. Think when things go wrong, not blindly follow. Like Sima Guang, he loves to use his brain since he was a child, but he can't smash jars to save people, and he can also pick plums on the roadside, and he won't blindly follow other children. This shows that such children have the habit of thinking. It laid the foundation for future work. Fighting with other children is by no means a loss!
3. Pay attention to the child's physique. Labor creates people and the world. Besides proper physical exercise, we should also carry out labor exercise. Most excellent people love labor! Chairman Zhu De once said that his mother made him form the habit of working and benefited him for life. A dude is a sign of no promise and a sign of family failure!
4. Don't let the children lose at the starting line. The main performance of letting children lose at the starting line is blind obedience and excessive early education! For example, a small class of two or three years old and a large class of four years old. At the age of five, I was forced to study in the first grade! Children are familiar with the old school palm! Infiltrated into the "old principal". Because of his young age, he is not only inferior to others in learning, but also inferior to others in running, which breeds weariness of learning, and children are not fresh about school. From the beginning, I was a poor student who was tired of learning! Excessive tossing encourages children to lose at the starting line.
5. Let the children choose. A qualified parent should guide children, not make decisions for them. A lot of practice has proved that children who have been helped by their parents to make decisions for a long time not only lack the ability to judge and choose when they grow up. They even lack a sense of responsibility and don't know how to be responsible for their own lives. If parents want their children to have a better future, they need to give them the opportunity to choose, let them learn how to decide and learn to be responsible for their own decisions. Parents need to respect their children both in study and in life, and they need to listen to their opinions when it comes to children.
6. Let the children try to make mistakes. "People are not sages, to err is human?" In study, work and life, adults will inevitably make all kinds of mistakes, not to mention innocent children. Therefore, it is normal for children to make mistakes, and parents don't have to worry too much about their children making mistakes. There is no white road in the world. Only by letting children try and make mistakes can they cultivate a strong heart.
7. Let the children be independent. Parents should never do what children can do by themselves. Because you have done something for your child that he should have done by himself, you are actually depriving your child of the ability to do it. Doing so will not only dampen children's enthusiasm, make them lose the opportunity to practice, but also make them dependent on their parents. Parents need to trust their children, let them do it, arrange their children to do what they can, and let them gradually become independent.
8. Pay attention to cultivating children's life, social skills and learning ability. In the future, truly capable children will turn themselves into iron rice bowls wherever they go. Cultivating life ability can help children learn to take care of themselves and improve their quality of life; Cultivate social skills, so that children can make better friends, feel at home in society and not be isolated; Cultivate learning ability, so that children can learn by going up a flight of stairs and cultivate their interest in learning.