Different from mother-in-law's concept of parenting, it is a problem that almost every daughter-in-law will face. Since it is a high probability time, why not prepare in advance?

Before giving birth to a child, a daughter-in-law can communicate openly with her mother-in-law, and analyze and predict possible future situations with her mother-in-law. When there are no specific problems, the emotions of both sides will be relatively peaceful, which is conducive to the unity of opinions.

Second, understand the elderly.

Mother-in-law, as a daughter-in-law, should be grateful to her mother-in-law, whether because she wants to help her children share their worries or because the children invite her. My mother-in-law could have danced square dance with her wife and traveled around the world, but for the sake of your little family, she came all the way to share the childcare task for you and dragged her poor body to do housework for you.

Therefore, no matter how different the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are in the concept of parenting, the daughter-in-law should not bear a grudge against her mother-in-law. If you still can't get along well after a period of running-in, you can take a month off, or bring it yourself and let your mother-in-law go home. You can't enjoy the service provided by your mother-in-law and complain about her shortcomings.

Third, handle it flexibly.

Many times, a family is not so harmonious and perfect. Although the mother-in-law understands the child very well and tries not to cause trouble to herself, the child also measures her mother-in-law very much and doesn't let her work too hard. But there are still many irreconcilable contradictions and conflicts in reality. At this time, children need to be flexible, do not dwell on specific details, and maintain family harmony and happiness.