A few days ago, my mother and Doudou watched a picture together: a mother was killed by a big fire, and her child was crying for her mother. At that time, my mother didn't tell her much for fear of scaring Doudou. As a result, Doudou kept saying things like "the baby's mother is gone", "burned to death" and "Doudou's mother is here with Doudou" for several days, and kept saying things like "Mom Doudou is not dead", but Doudou's mother didn't know how to answer.
In this case, parents should know how to understand their children's painful feelings and talk openly about this topic with their children. Otherwise, parents' secretive attitude will make their children smell even more terrible. On the contrary, it is suggested to take the opportunity to carry out education on how to protect life.
Second, what is "life education"
From 65438 to 0968, an American scholar published the book Life Education, which discussed the true meaning of education that must pay attention to people's growth and development and life health. Life Education Tutor, a vocational training course launched by China Employment Training Technical Guidance Center in May, 20 12, points out that life education is an education to face life and human life and death, and its goal is to make people learn to respect life, understand the meaning of life and the relationship between life and heaven, people and me, learn to live and develop actively, healthily and independently, and get a body by caring for each other, recording, thanking and sharing life.
Life education is the premise of all education and the highest pursuit of education. We should not only educate young people to cherish life, but also inspire them to fully understand the meaning of life and actively create the value of life; We should not only tell teenagers to pay attention to their own lives, but also help them to pay attention to, respect and love the lives of others. Not only Hui Ze's education of human beings, but also young people should understand that they live in harmony with the lives of other species under the same blue sky; Not only the enjoyment of today's life, but also the development of tomorrow's life.
Third, how to educate children about life in the family?
on the one hand
Parents should first have positive life beliefs and set an example for their children.
on the other hand
We should pay attention to the small details of interaction with children in life, tap the opportunity of education and cultivate children's wisdom in life.
In real life, some sudden disasters are beyond people's ability. When or after the disaster, we are all thinking about our wisdom in life. Whether you can respond tactfully is related to life safety and loss. After all, catastrophes are rare, and the resolution of some minor setbacks and contradictions in life is a good life education experience. There are actually many details to be discovered in family life. Let me share a few cases of life education through life details in the family.
Case 1:
Once my mother accompanied Beibei to see picture books of viviparous and oviparous animals, and the little guy suddenly asked her, "Then how was I born?" My mother was speechless and didn't know how to answer, so she promised her son to think it over and give him an answer. Later, a friend recommended related picture books to Beibei, and the problem was solved. But after a while, when Beibei asked her mother, "Then why does mom have children and dad doesn't?" At this time, Beibei's mother was puzzled again, and she didn't know whether to answer the child's questions.
analyse
Almost all children will question their source of life when they grow up. This kind of question usually scares parents because they think their children want to ask them something difficult to say. In fact, children are just curious about how they came into this world. Parents can just give them an answer that suits their age. For example, younger children can simply tell them "You were born to your mother". After the child gets the answer, he will often be satisfied for a while. However, with the growth of self-awareness, they will have deeper questions about the origin of life, and they will ask, like Beibei, "Why do mothers have babies and fathers have fathers?" Questions like this. At this time, parents should try to answer with easy-to-understand answers, such as "because there is something called uterus in mom's stomach, the baby can grow up in it, and dad can't have a baby without it."
In short, this is a frequently asked question, which tests parents' educational wisdom. Fortunately, more and more picture books are emerging in the market, which provides a more vivid carrier for parent-child interaction in this area. Parents who feel uncomfortable talking about this topic directly may wish to buy some such picture books for their children, such as Serena Rushing Forward and Round Belly, as materials for parent-child reading, and so on. More importantly, these picture books not only pay attention to the teaching of relevant physiological knowledge, but also have very intimate psychological development care, which is suitable for children to accept.