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What will happen to a mother who changed clothes when she was a child when she grows up?
Ma Bao, when you have children, will you change clothes in front of them? Do you know the effect of changing clothes in front of children often?

There are many such situations in life. Many mothers think that their children are still young and are not afraid to change clothes in front of them. Some mothers often bathe with their sons and feel that they can take care of their children better than their fathers. As everyone knows, changing clothes in front of children is slowly affecting their psychological development and hindering their sex education.

1, vague about gender differences

The most likely consequence of "changing clothes without avoiding children" is the confusion of children's gender consciousness. "Changing clothes" is a very personal act. If the mother doesn't avoid suspicion, it's easy for children to think that there is no difference between men and women. Therefore, children do not know how to protect their privacy in life, and it is easy to make some wrong behaviors to others.

2. No respect for privacy

If parents think it's okay to change clothes in front of their children, mistakenly think that their children don't care, or don't understand at all, then you are all wet. In fact, children's observation ability is the most acute, and they like to observe new things most. They mistakenly let children think that their private parts are not so private, and others' privacy will make them disrespectful, so it is easy to peek at others changing clothes, which is very bad for children.

3. It is easy for children to form Oedipus complex.

Parents do not avoid suspicion in front of their children, and it is easy for children to form an Oedipus complex and rely too much on their parents. It is easy to break the wings of children flying independently, making it difficult for children to stand on their own feet and become talents in the future, and the consequences are terrible.

4. Children will become more and more curious about sex.

At present, most families have insufficient sex education for their children. If parents often change clothes in front of their children, children will be particularly curious about sex. If parents don't guide them in time at this time, children will become more and more curious and even explore by themselves. When children grow up, their psychological development will be greatly affected.

Children's sex education should really be early. Although the child is still young and doesn't know anything, when you tell him some knowledge, he will actually keep it in mind, and the older the child grows up, the more curious he is about the opposite sex, so tell him his answer as soon as possible, and he won't concentrate on this question any more. Are you right?