2. When children take the initiative to challenge and encounter setbacks, parents should give them more inspiration and guidance in methods, try to let them solve problems and overcome difficulties by themselves, and let them feel the sense of success and the care of their parents.
In life, we often encounter "setbacks" of all sizes. At this time, parents should not think that their children are procrastinating and make arrangements. They should give children enough time to think and explore. After solving the problem, guide them to sum up their successes. When they face challenges or setbacks again, children will take the initiative to face them.
4. Control the reward. If you don't want your child to make a little progress, give him too much material rewards and praise, so that he has more opportunities to enjoy the spiritual rewards after success. Too many material rewards will distort children's successful experience and even work hard for material rewards, which is a big mistake.
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The benefits of frustration education
1, stimulate potential
In normal real life, people always have a potential that cannot be stimulated, and this potential can only be stimulated under some extraordinary circumstances. For students, when they suffer setbacks, it is easy to stimulate their potential. The more difficult it is to find the answer, the more it can stimulate students' potential and inquiry spirit, so as to carry out research-based learning and master knowledge effectively.
2. Adapt to modern society
If students have not been baptized by setbacks in school and have no concept of correctly treating setbacks, they are like "flowers" in a greenhouse, and they cannot adapt to society well. Only when students suffer a lot of setbacks (whether active or passive) in school, can they better adapt to society to some extent by mastering the coping methods.
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