Parents want their children to win at the starting line, and every parent wants their children to be better educated. They will think that all his efforts are for the children to become better. So many parents always criticize their children in the name of education. What bad effect will this have on their children?

Children will become more inferior. If parents educate their children in a critical way for a long time, children will doubt their abilities and deny themselves. Slowly, he will feel that his ability is not as bad as his parents said. In the long run, children will lose confidence in themselves, and children who lose confidence will naturally become more vulnerable and prone to inferiority complex. Parents should know that a child's self-confidence is crucial to his development. Therefore, parents' long-term education of their children in a critical tone will only make them resistant. Maybe the child can't choose to rebel against his parents, but in his heart, he doesn't agree with his parents' criticism, which will make him have too many negative emotions. So such a child, he often feels very inferior.

In fact, we all advocate appreciation education. From other people's positive words, we can stimulate children's potential infinitely and make them more passionate. However, if parents criticize their children for a long time, when the children are troubled by this criticism for a long time, they will easily become children with inferiority complex, and children with inferiority complex will easily have social phobia. Such children like to be trapped in their own cages and are unwilling to come out. Such children do not like to discuss problems with others, nor do they want to share their happiness with others, let alone be close to anyone. Slowly, the child will block the heart. A child's lack of normal social interaction and healthy and happy growth will have a bad influence on his later life.

Family education is very important and will have a far-reaching impact on the healthy growth of children's body and mind. Therefore, parents must choose a way suitable for their children's growth when educating, and don't impose it on their children with their own wishes. We should put ourselves in the children's shoes. From another angle, more patience, more understanding and tolerance can make children thrive in the deep love of their parents.