Children have their own families. As an old man, help them if you can. If not, don't help them. Don't make trouble for the children. That's right.

Because it is the responsibility and obligation of parents and the elderly to educate children from an early age and bring them up, children have their own small families, and parents should not disturb their lives and give them some free space.

Of course, parents can also be healthy according to their actual situation, and they don't have to help their children do what they can. It is also a good thing to help children with housework, and parents have a high pension for the elderly, which is enough for parents to support themselves.

If parents can't help their children, the two old people will let nature take its course and live a good old life. In short, as the topic owner said, if the elderly can help the children, don't help them. It is best not to add chaos to the children.