1. Give children time to play casually.
Thomas and Armstrong, American children education scholars, pointed out that free play is more beneficial to the health of preschool children than planned activities. Parents should not blindly fill their children's time with various activities. Every child needs some free and casual play time.
2. Guide children to care about others.
Every happy child needs to feel the meaningful intersection with others and understand his meaning to others.
It is necessary to help children cultivate this feeling and let them have more contact with people in their daily lives. You can guide the children to sort out the old toys at home with him and donate them to charity to help those poor and difficult children.
3. Encourage children to exercise more.
In daily life, encourage children to do sports, such as playing ball, swimming, running and cycling. Children who exercise regularly can improve their physical fitness and become more cheerful. Maintaining a more active life can also relieve the child's stress and emotions and make him more cheerful. More exercise can also make children like themselves and have a more positive body image.
4. Praise children creatively
Sometimes children behave well, don't just say good. Parents should praise their children more specifically, point out the details, and tell them what they did well or did better than last time. Parents should let their children feel the satisfaction and sense of accomplishment brought by completing one thing, instead of rewarding him with material rewards.
5. Stimulate children's artistic potential
Although many scientists have confirmed that there is no so-called Mozart effect. But exposing children to art, music and other artistic activities can really enrich their inner world. Some researchers have found that whenever children follow music and dance, or doodle with brushes, they are using artistic behavior to express their inner world and express their feelings.
6. Give your child a hug often.
Every hug parents give their children conveys infinite care. It is silent. I love you. Some experts have found that parents' gentle hugs and caresses can make premature babies healthier and more lively, and their emotions will be more stable.
7. Listen to your child.
Nothing can make children feel cared for more than listening attentively. Listen to the child patiently. Don't interrupt, hurry to help him express himself or let him finish his words quickly, even if you have heard what he said many times. It is the best time to listen when you accompany your child to school or put him to bed.
8. Children are not required to be too perfect.
Everyone expects children to show their best, but sometimes they are too eager to correct or improve their performance. Demanding perfection in everything will weaken children's self-confidence and courage not to be afraid of making mistakes. Imagine, after 10 years, is this matter still so serious? If not, let the children do it.
9. Guide children to solve problems
The milestone of every child's growth, from tying his shoelaces to crossing the road by himself, is pieced together step by step. When children find that they have the ability to solve their own problems, it can bring them happiness and a sense of accomplishment.
10, give children a stage to perform.
Every child has a unique talent. If they like telling stories, encourage them to tell you more stories. If he is good at numbers, take him shopping and ask him to help you choose a cheaper one. When you can appreciate your child's talent and show your enthusiasm, your child will naturally be more confident.