Spoiling education, reason: Spoiling has become the mainstream because the improvement of the overall family income level and the implementation of the family planning policy in China since the 1980s have led to the excessive concern of the whole family, including parents, grandmothers, grandfathers and even uncles and aunts. This is the reason of the times, not the case of any parents or families. Results: Spoiling education will make children lack gratitude and have no concept of boundaries. In school and social life, it is easy to be isolated, which is very unfavorable to the development of study and work, and when it is serious, it will produce persecution paranoia.