As the saying goes, if you are near Zhu Zhechi, you will be black, if you are near Mexico. A person's temperament is inseparable from his childhood growth environment and the influence of education.

I personally have the following understanding of why these two are so excellent.

Excellent family education parents and educators know that children's first teachers are parents, and their exploration of the world begins with imitating parents, that is, the subtle influence of parents on children begins with the roots.

Let's take a look at Mrs. Sheng Jia. Although she is careless and outspoken, she is a conscientious person. Under her influence, Changbai and Hualan are naturally not too bad, so they not only don't exclude Ming Lan, but also make friends with her.

Hualan was brought up by an old lady from Shengjia. The old lady of Shengjia, who used to be in charge, can support the whole Shengjia with one hand and revitalize the declining Shengjia. Naturally, she is not an ordinary person. It is not surprising that Hualan, who was educated by such an old lady, can become a housewife.

As we all know, in ancient society, the class status was very obvious, and the status of illegitimate children and illegitimate children was very different.

In the drama, the owner of the Sheng family has a wife and two concubines, namely, the eldest lady Wang Ruofu, the youngest lady Lin and the youngest lady who died of illness. Changbai and Hualan are the children of the first lady and the first one.

However, Master Sekiji is an illegitimate child. He knew from an early age that illegitimate children were "inferior" and loved Lin Xiaoniang very much, so he loved the two illegitimate children in Lin Xiaoniang's room best and didn't want them to be influenced by illegitimate children. As a result, Changbai and Hualan were inexplicably left out and could not get more care.

So they can feel from an early age that only when they become excellent can they get more attention from their fathers, so they study harder and lay the foundation for future Excellence.

As the saying goes, what kind of person you want to be, make friends with him. (I don't know who said that, haha)

For Hua Lan, she was taught by the old lady since she was a child, and most of them were taught by the old lady.

Changbai is different. He is not a lady like Hua Lan. As a man, he must learn and gain fame to prove himself. His close friends are Qi Heng, Gu and others. They were all famous figures in the country at that time, and their personality background was talked about. They say birds of a feather flock together. It must be good to be friends with such people.

Conclusion From these aspects, we can easily see that there are many variables in a person's growth process. Only by not forgetting your initiative can you finally achieve your ultimate goal.

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